GOODBYE and LETTING GO..what's the difference?
By mairn2008
@mairn2008 (76)
Philippines
3 responses
@asiamooner (418)
• Philippines
23 Feb 11
hmmm...that was deep... hehe...spelling is the only thing that mae the difference, hehehehe....that for me is the answer...
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
23 Feb 11
Saying goodbye when we leave and go to other place is fine.
but saying goodbye to someone we love is not easy.
Goodbye means...it's the end of it all.
Goodbye's sometimes ends up in not so good endings.
While letting go is somewhat,being prepared emotionally and physically though it would hurt us so badly.
I have goodbye's...i would rather think of letting go...at least i can say,it's my final word/decision
have a great day and welcome to mylot
@mairn2008 (76)
• Philippines
23 Feb 11
thanks much jaiho! it's still a case to case basis..for me, if i could no longer see a hope for both of us, then i would rather put an end than trying to fix things which can no longer be fixed and hurting me all over again..
@staria (2780)
• Philippines
23 Feb 11
It is easy to say goodbye and leave. I think it requires more of the physical action. But letting go deals more in the emotional side of the person. You might be able to say goodbye but deep inside you are still holding on to the possibilities.
@mairn2008 (76)
• Philippines
23 Feb 11
yes maybe..but still it depends if the person is worth fighting for..but if not, then why waste your time? it happened to me. now i could say, there's no more spark in my heart. i guess i just remember the boy now but i don't remember the feelings anymore..:)