How long will u be sad after you broke up?

I think being sad after break up really depends on the person.. I usually get sad / depressed a long time, and usually, it's another guy who will make me happy again, or make me forget about my ex.. Though I must say, you should never assume that your ex is happy and laughing and what not.. cause it would only make you feel miserable.. you should always look at the positive side, and just think that maybe it was not really meant to be.. Move on, and I'm sure you'll find another guy who'll treat you better.

Breaking up is very unpleasant and I'm sorry to hear that you had to experience this. I also have to deal with the same thing a few times in the past and there are a few things that helped me cope. The first thing to keep in mind is to allow yourself to grieve. It's ok to cry. You've been hurt after all, and rejection is a painful emotion to feel. But give yourself a timeframe for grieving, say a month. During this period feel free to cry, scream, wallow in your misery, safe in the thought that there's an end to it. Then once your grieving period is over, pick yourself up and start making positive changes in your life so you can begin the moving on process. Get a haircut or a makeover, take new classes, explore places or even better start exercising. This produces endorphins which make people happy. Good luck, and I hope you feel better soon.

I had a boyfriend, just before my husband, and we broke up on a New Years day. It was really painful because i found out that he was already with another girl during that time. However, in my case i moved on immediately, after 2 weeks. It wasn't just my attitude to stay sad because of a guy, sorry but not me. I always think that there are lots of guys out there. At the end of the month of january, I met my husband. After 5 months of being together we decided to get married. Sometimes, the right person would come unexpectedly. We've been married now for 8 years going 9 this August.

Ah the trials and tribulations in our search for love. I believe that the sadness after this type of breakup never really goes away. There will always be a little sadness in a corner of your soul for this love. But I think one should first learn to be happy with one's self. When we define our happiness through our relationships with another, we leave ourselves open to repeating this kind of hurt. Instead of considering being happy with another, consider another being happy with you. If you are a well rounded, sincere, and loving individual, you will attract a partner with similar values and virtues. If you love who you are, you will be confident in yourself and not be afraid to express yourself to others. In my very first love, i loved her enough to let her go on with life without me since i knew I was not ready to make her happy. I am still a little sad when i think of what could have been.

There was this guy I liked and he knew that I liked him. He used that to get me to do favors for him. He played me like a fool acting like he liked me. Broke my heart in the beginning of Spring and it hurt me so much. I got over it though by the beginning of this year. 2 months ago I saw him again and he told me how sorry he was. Nowadays he's talking to me and playing around with me just because he knows that I've got someone else new. The one way that I got over him was with my best friend Haagen Dazs. I ate that while watching some 90210, Dawson's Creek and My So-Called Life. It took a good 4 months to get over him.

I am not at the situation of breaking up because I am now and in a very secured relationship. But I have exerienced heartaches before. Been really sad for almost seven months! Then I met the love of my life, he really knows where to start fixing a broken heart.... :)

as far as i can remember with my past relationships, i moved on alone. i didn't meet someone new just to divert my thoughts. i was in deep pain and i thought i could go on as hurt as i was. but i got over it. i don't exactly know how but time.. it needs time. i hope, in my next relationship.. am not gonna try looking for someone new just to get over the guy. if we decide to move on apart, i hope it'll be in good terms. we remain friends and still see each other sometime. thankfully, im still friends with my former boyfriends. i'm sure we still can have a pleasant talk. :) and am happy i was once part of their lives.

Hi, i also can't forget my ex before i met my hubby now. every happy moment that i faced, i always wish that he were there with me. but then i know, having other person to be loved is the effective way to mend a broken heart

Hi dear, I don't know what to tell you. Feel sad of you. We will be depressed when we lose yuan 100 you will feel sad. But when you get yuan 200, you will forget about the lose of yuan 100. So learn to forget about the lose and try to get more and more of 200s. I think you got what I mean. One lose should compensate or make up with another gain. This should be the principle of our life. If we cry for the lost ones, our life will be full of grief and pain. Our desire is the cause of our sorrows. So, forget about the losses and think of the ones what we are going to get. As you said earlier, I know you got a good mind to accomplish everything. You are just 20 only and there is a log nice life ahead of you. Also think that there is a still better boy is waiting for you somewhere. I am sure that you will get someone who like you more and you can also love him with your hear. Spring festivals will come again. Relax and be cheerful. I know it is difficult to forget about the lose of our dear ones or dear things. Some times all are not meant for us. These kind of facts we need to accept and thereby we will get more power and courage to face the facts in our life. You should prove that you can live still better even if he ditched you. So be happy and don't cry for the spill milk - it is a saying. But there are a lots of meaning in it. Let me pray that you may get more courage to face new challenges in your life. Be happy and cheerful. Thank-s

Less than Five minutes. Yes, i will be in sadness when i hurt by any problem, because i can analyse and discuss myself with my soul. It will sends amazing outputs to my mind. There is a wonderful path in between my mind and heat through which messages are communicating in the speed of tera hertz range. And i am always ready to face the problem. My heart is always in alert position in expecting the problems and its range. Thanks for sharing. Have a nice day, God bless you.

Dear my friend, I wish that you can escape this status as soon as possible. Why must you be sad because him in several years? This is a long time. I believe that you missed many beautiful things in that time. You should love yourself. Do you want to live in order that you love him in the future?

hi,we don't know each other but I can feel that u ar sunny and I believe u'll deal with this kind of relationship well.Last night I came to myspace and saw my exbf's pictuers with his gf.Though it's a long-time-befor thing and we both move on those pics hurt me badly.I can't get him off coz we ar best friends at first we share many fancy remembers.After him I met many guys but just short relationships.I know there is no way for us to get together at all ,yet ,whatever, there ar still so many cute guys,right?! plus:What kind of boyfriend u want? Which is more important,goodlooking or mature or something else?

It would depend on the situation and the reason for the break up.

Couple of years ago we broke up and i forgot her after 2 weeks later. Maybe sometimes relationships are not so complex. Just capture the day. time heals all wounds. Do not be afraid and tell him. If you don't tell maybe in the future you will be regret. Good Luck.

I was sad like you for long time. It was really hard since we had been together for 5 years, but I was even sadder when we were together since he was pretty mean and was cheating on me. I had to get myself to see that it was the idea of our relationship that I was missing. Not really him because how can I love someone that makes me cry and feel bad about what hes doing when he isn't with me,

Throughout my life, I have broken up many times. Sometimes it was me who wanted to end, but other times it was my girlfriend who wanted to split up with me. Both times were painful but when I was the one to be dumped, I always got to feel that I would never get over it - The truth was that I did get over it. Sometimes I would meet somebody else and I would be over being dumped very quickly. Sometimes it would take months and I guess that there is no time limit - but you do get over it. _Derek

It is very difficult to forget especially your first love.I had loved a person and he was really very nice and educated but somehow the marriage did not happen.His parents were adamant and they wanted to marry him with another girl and he just could not go against the wishes of his family. I am married now and have a son but my husband does not understand my feelings.His behavior and attitude is indifferent towards me and when you face situations like this in your life you tend to miss the love of your life all the more. This episode is more than a decade old but still sometimes i wish i could get married to my love because i am not happy with my current relationship.

It's going to be two years for me now... there are times that I think about him sometimes but I try to keep myself distracted.

I broke up too couple of years ago with my heart. I really really love her and that's why i meet her with my parents. My parents also like her. Everything was good until one of my friend cheat me. He tell her something wrong about me. I don't know what did he said as she didn't tell me about that. But that days we often fight and quarrel. But it was solved within few hours. That was just love fight. But i don't know what happen to her once and we had a big fight with word and we broke up in a sudden. I still love her but i don't want her back as she have a relation with someone else now. But love happens once and she was my true love.

hi in fact you are talking about arelation broke but i can fell with you its aheart broke i wish if you can find any way to restore your old relation or make anew life with new man if you are realy love him and you realy forget your old love wish you all the best