Did you take after your Father's Profession?
@SIMPLYD (90721)
Philippines
February 23, 2011 7:57pm CST
Some families tend to copy their father's profession. Like, if their father is a lawyer or a doctor or politician , some of them would be too.
My father is a lawyer and is a retired judge now. We are 5 female siblings in the family and no one took after his profession. He was the one who made us choose our degrees in College, to which we chose differently.
When i think about it, i was thinking that maybe he regrets that none took after him. But i guess not anymore, because one of my nephew took Law and is awaiting his Bar Exam results this March.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
So you will be studying to be a doctor. Just like my daughter, who is graduating now in BS Biology, she will still pursue Medicine.
I am glad that you will help your father in his business. At least, even if you didn't take after him, your profession, you still will help him.
Keep it up!
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@ab_arnie (95)
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
Hmmmm... Maybe I can say, I'm going there? Haha. My mom is a CE and a Nurse, and my dad is a CE and a lawyer...
I'm an RN, and taking up nursing was not even my choice. My mom forced me, like really forced me to take it, and so I did. Now, taking up medicine has always been my dream. So, right after graduation they permitted me to pursue that dream. But recently, they took away that dream again, after they learned how much med school costs. So, they gave me the options either to work as a nurse (where the salary rarely compensates for your hard work)or to take up law (which my dad REALLY wanted me to take since i was like, 5? --- not to mention it's way cheaper than medicine).
So... I chose to enroll in law school where I don't have to worry about living costs, plus, I have a regular allowance! Haha! LOL =]
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@ab_arnie (95)
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
Yeah. I may be obedient but I haven't had real satisfaction with where I am now. I could graduate law and successfully pass the bar exam, but I think I'd still have that desire of being a doctor. What I'm trying to say is, parents should also consider in what field will their children find inner satisfaction. Not only what they, as parents, want and perceive as fulfilling. Just saying... =]
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@sender621 (14893)
• United States
24 Feb 11
My father had the profession of an auto mechanic. i am as far from being that as you can get. i would not have to worry about my services being needed by the fast and the furious.
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@dong88 (795)
• China
24 Feb 11
Hello!I'm engaged in professional with my father's different.As a father,indeed hope their children the professional same at him.But,the social development too fast,professional connotation will also be changing,and that also makes many people the profession that pursues generation of occupation not the same one reason.
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@dreamnishu (1247)
• China
24 Feb 11
hello friend!
my father is alive now and i do not want to take his profession.i am a student of medical university and my father is a business man.so i do not want to be like him because i do not like business i like to help people when they need me.i really want to be a great doctor and make my father proud on me.
thanks a lot.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
Let's just thank our fathers for not insisting on us their profession to be followed . We have our own choices too and they respect us for that.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
Wow, good luck to your nephew! It must be excruciating for him to wait for the results! As for me, I took my first degree because my father had somehow "influenced" me in taking it. I was only high school, but he already kept telling me about what his degree promises (though he isn't practicing his profession anymore). So it was a natural choice for me when I had to go to college.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
My nephew is already working at our municipality. The mayor was the one who offered him a job. They kept telling him not to leave if ever he passes the bar exams.
Nice of you to follow the heed of your father? Mind if i ask what degree will that be?
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
1 Mar 11
You're really too different to your father as well as your mother. But did you know that you are all artists in different ways ?
@amirev777 (4117)
• India
24 Feb 11
Hi
In a way I did. So did my brother. My father is a mechanical engineer, and even I did my Mechanical engineering, and my younger brother followed suit. But the professions we chose are different. I am now a Marine Engineer sailing as Chief Engineer. My father did his Shipping management and was a senior shipping manager before he retired. My brother shifted to software engineering.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
1 Mar 11
Though all of you didn't have the same line of engineering with your father, all of you are indeed in Engineering profession at least. Nice to hear that.
@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
24 Feb 11
I guess I take my Dad's profession. My Dad is a cook, I think I take his good cooing skill, I'm somebody's wife now so I have to cook everyday. My husband likes my cooking and thinks am a very good chief, I get good compliment from him all the time.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
1 Mar 11
How nice of you to take after your father's profession as a chef. Your husband must have been always looking forward to your cooking!
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
28 Feb 11
In our family, nobody did took after our dad's profession. But my youngest sister did take up what my dad wanted to be.
My dad wanted to be a lawyer too. He went to school when we were young. But for some reason or another, he had to give up his dream. He never pursued it anymore.
Then when my youngest sister went and became a lawyer, she fulfilled his dream for him.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
1 Mar 11
Sometimes our parents could be like that, specially fathers. They wish their unfulfilled dreams be fulfilled by anyone from their children. It's as if he did take it when the child of his fulfilled it.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
1 Mar 11
Oh, that's sad. Maybe you should overcome that attitude and be like your father.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
1 Mar 11
At least you get to take the profession which suits your taste. That's nice.
@jhaidro (877)
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
My father was a cop and after finishing high school, I told him that I wanted to become like him but he immediately told me that it is not going to happen. He told me that it is not easy becoming one. He fears that things might go wrong on training camp and worse is things might get out of hand when I graduate and be on the streets keeping the peace. He keeps on saying that it is dangerous.
I followed what he told me and became a nurse instead. Too bad that in my country, its flooding with nurses. And now, it is so hard to be employed.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
Some jobs are really risky, just like what your father have. It's just but right of him to advise you on becoming like him too. He doesn't want you to endanger your life.
Yes, the nursing profession is already brimming already, specially here in the Philippines. Perhaps you can find an office job for the time being.
Thanks for sharing.
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@ab_arnie (95)
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
JHAIDRO, I totally agree! The Philippines has an overstock of nurses. So, instead of trying so hard to take the slimmest chances of being hired as a nurse (then receiving really LOW pay), I chose to be a student again. Free food, board and lodging (at home!), plus, allowance!!! Hahah. LOL