Tiger Moms

We have this semi-Chinese ways of upbringing. We children are not allow to answer back at our parents, keep our mouth shut until they allow us to talk or reason out. We also have to be punished whenever we made some

i think the Tiger MOMS method is the part of thd Chinese culcure.But now in China,i thinks only part of the Chinese agree with the method,because if that it is not good to the peasonality development.

I want to read this book just to see what it's all about (maybe next month when I get paid) but from what I've heard, I think her methods are way too harsh. Children are individuals, not rough pieces of clay to mold into one's own image.

I've heard about this already. Some of the disciplines mentioned sound very abusive. Not allowing a child to eat or drink? That just sounds wrong to me. I don't think children need to have that kind of abusive push in order to succeed. And I have to wonder if the children are happy and living their dreams or just the parent's dreams.

I have read an article about it in the Times magazine. Well I agree that her methods are quite unconventional and hurtful, but her intentions are quite decent. According to her she's preparing her child for the harshness of the world, or for real life. According to her she is being strict because she believes that her children can do far better. Her methods also yield good results as her children are doing great and excelling well. The side of the child was also said in the article. And according to her when she grows up she's going to be just like her mother, though she's going to modify some of her mother's methods. Her methods actually has a lot of psychological significance. And it does really improve the mind of a person. According to the magazine, Tiger mom's are probably the reason why China's economy is rising to the top these days. My side on these though is that sometimes tiger mom's also need to show some soft side to their kids and lesser verbal abuse as it may ruin their self esteem.