is there something wrong? / myLot

China

February 24, 2011 2:39am CST

i'm confused ifeel i cannot communicate with others well,and i donot know how to express my feelings to others.the more the technology develop,the less you communicate with others.i want to make some friends but it is difficult to me,i donot know which topics person likes.when i talks with others face to face i alwas feel awful,and i donot know why?then could you give me some advice?thanks and have a good day!

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celticeagle

@celticeagle (168126)

• Boise, Idaho

25 Feb 11

It pays to be honest and listen. Listening will tell you if these people are actually ones you want as friends. Be careful how much you put forth. SOmeone that puts forth alot right up front can get hurt in many ways. I would tread slowly and carefully. If you want friends you have to be a friend.

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celticeagle

@celticeagle (168126)

• Boise, Idaho

4 Mar 11

Don't forget to use your gut feelings. If you get a negative feeling move away. Go with your gut and don't overthink it.

peace001

@peace001 (726)

• China

3 Mar 11

thanks for your good points.i think about lots of things those days,and some things have been the unforgettable experences of my life, and i'm clear whom i want to be.and i will be cautious when i open my heart,for it is difficult to know which one can be your real friend. best wishes

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Polang

@tkonlinevn (6438)

• Vietnam

24 Feb 11

I'm same you before. Then, I tried to change myself. I say again and again that everyone like me such as I like them. I begin to love myself more than before. I smile much more and going out with my friends more. If you want to grow up your communication with other people, you must confidence about you and you must love yourself first.