I am depressed...

@joygracia (1325)
Philippines
February 24, 2011 3:45am CST
Just got my heart broken and I am so depressed right now. I dont know if i will ever be happy again.
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9 responses
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
One day your wounds will heal. Have faith. Love yourself more. :)
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
Hopefully it will not be too soon. Thank you!
• United States
25 Feb 11
I understand that it hurts right now...when I have had my heart broken, I didn't know how I could ever move on. But trust me, even though it's cliche, the more time goes by, the better you will feel. Life is about so much more than boys...one day you will meet the man that God has planned for you to marry and you will be thankful for all the things that led you up to that point. Eat some ice cream, write some sad poetry, watch some romantic movies, and you'll be over it in no time :-)
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
Thank you! that kinda make me feel a lot better. I did compose a song for him. I recorded it also. It sounded kinda neat but it keeps me reminding of him so for awhile I wont listen to it but probably if these feelings would all go away. Then things will be okay for me..;D
@djmarion (4898)
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
they say that "time heals all wounds" and it is true, our heart is a fragile thing and is very breakable but it mends. A lot of people including me got our hearts broken often but we can say that we've moved further. Don't drown yourself in despair and instead go out and have fun with your good friends. It could help you lessen the pain. Sometimes things happen for a reason and i do believe that if the person you love has left you and never come back to you then you were destined for someone else better than that person.
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
Your absolutely right. I just wish I could really get over this. Its just, this happened just recently and the painis still the same like it used to. I do really wish this to be over. I know it will someday. Thank you!
• United States
25 Feb 11
I am so sorry to read that someone had broken you heart. Yes sweetie, some day you will be happy again. It is quite normal to be so unhappy after a break up and feel like you will never be happy again. Please allow some time to mend your heart and find exactly what you do want and do not from perhaps someone else in the future. When you do start over make sure to do so when you feel ready as bringing over negative feelings will affect your future relationship. Do take and care and be well.
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
Reading your comment makes me feel great and hopeful. Thank you so much! Probably someday I can trully be free and happy... ;D
@QeeGood (1213)
• Sweden
24 Feb 11
I've been heart broken many times. Endure the pain and suffering. Acknowledge every thing you feel and experience. Make a choice by chosing your thoughts. You can decide to think happy thoughts. I often try to remember something that made me laugh heartily. Or I watch a very funny video. That hopefully make my laugh. However there are times when I let it all out of grief, sorrow, pain suffering I cry loudly tears pouring out on my cheeks. Still a good thing is to watch funny videos to make you laugh.
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
I did quite a time and sometimes when the pain is so intense I did let it out quite a awhile. That is why I got so depressed the time I raise this topic. I really got so depress and I am glad I shared it with you guys coz hearing from your comments kind of made me feel a lot better. I feel hopeful right now that things will work out just fine for me and someday I will just laugh this all out. Thank you so much for the comments. Take care!
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
24 Feb 11
I had been there 5years ago. It was really painful but I couldn't let him go so the pain haunted me for couple more years. But with the help of my friends I could move on. It feels great now. The thing why I was hurt for so long was because I couldn't let go. Sometimes somethings aren't meant to be so we should learn to let go. Good luck. I hope you get the strength to overcome it.
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
I guess I can someday hearing from all experience. I hope it will not be too soon. Thank you!
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
25 Feb 11
Hi joygracia, since both the words of happy and sad are available in dictionary it's sure that we would be happy again then. How soon this would be cured it usually depends on how thing going on. If we have friends who always comfort us and try to straighten us out from the emotional entanglement. Time is the best remedy to heal the emotive wound hurt by the break up of relationships. Everything would go faded as time goes by. So try to have some interesting activities would occupy the unpleasant time and kill it a bit easier and faster. There is always a streak of light in the end of darkness Wish you all the best and have a nice day
@Jennlk84 (4206)
• United States
25 Feb 11
Unfortunately we all experience heartbreak. I'm sorry to hear you're hurting :-( Just remember that life will go on and eventually you WILL feel better. I know that is so hard to hear and even understand right now, but speaking from experience, I'm telling you it will. And eventually you will meet your soulmate. The person you're meant to spend the rest of your life with. Hang in there!
@sais06 (1284)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
This is what I also said several years ago and I can't imagine how I was able to withstand. Don't force yourself to heal the hurt immediately because it will take some time before you will recover completely. Just don't relive your past that has hurt you but live for each and everyday of your life. Think of those persons who still love and care for you because your life doesn't revolve to only one person. Time will pass and you will find yourself whole again. Give yourself time to enjoy, share it with your family and friends, and you will soon be alright again. We feel that way because the feeling is so intense at the moment but as time goes by that feeling will start to cool down. I believe you will be happy again.