join family and seprate family
By smilywomen
@surekharathi (14146)
India
February 24, 2011 11:08am CST
Now these days everyone want to stay separate family but I believe join family is better than separate family because every problems can solve easily you are agree with me or wants to be a separate family
6 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
25 Feb 11
There are some issues today that cannot be solved easily if both parties are not willing. As sometimes no matter if one side wants to dearly and with all their heart the other perhaps may not be on the same level of want.
Truly it would be nice if the families where together for life but sometimes we have no control over it.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
26 Aug 11
You are right my dear friend really in every solution both the parties willing is must. I love joint family but now this is very hard because no one can live together. I will pray near God when my devrani will came she also wants to like me join family and we will do fun.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
25 Mar 11
Friend my discussion on joint and separate family now most of people want to stay in seprate family only mother father and child no grand mother no grand father no grand father in law etc. what you think about
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
25 Mar 11
No I am not talking about only divorce but also money problem, education problem etc. If you are residing in joint family then no full burden depend on you monthly expenses but sharing with all the family members
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
25 Mar 11
ohhhhhhhhh no you like alone but if your not feeling well then who is ready for help you nobody are there at that time you will remember and feel no alone is not good
@Cherubina (16)
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4 Mar 11
Both have their pros and cons. Let's talk about the pros in joint families...the children are taken care of well. The food and lodging costs come down. The cons? Well, you have to submit to the others in the family, their routine, their rules. Sometimes, they try to influence the kids a lot since they spend a lot of time with them. Even to the extent of turning them against the parents. Definitely we would like our kids upbringing to be done our way,...but it doesn't happen that way here.
