How can we wish our well wishers with a sweet smile, even we are in problems...?

Hi. rameshchow. We must try to remain strong and tell them that we have God in our lives. We have to speak words of encouragement even if it means relating to them. We have to speak positive so that they can feel confident about their stress and frustrations.

Hiya Remo, Smile though your Heart is breaking Smile even though it´s aching this is part of a Song that fits this to a t. Even though the tears maybe ever so near I have kept on smiling and have told everyone no l was peeling Onions which at that time of the Morning I usually do anyway. I have been smiling though my heart has been breaking into two and smiling though it´s aching as well. Some of the things you try to do in life.. You don´t always want People to know that you are upset so you put a brave face on and hope that things will get better. So you smile on the outside and cry on the inside. When I had just lost a premature Baby Girl I was smiling away and I went home and when no one was around I let the tears flow I could not take any more. It´s just our way of coping with given situations that crop up in life.xxx

It is second nature for me. Until last year , I never talked about my problems , I honestly thought no one would want to listen and that includes family. so I would just be cordial with everyone.

Hi sweetie. It's hard to pretend that you are alright when dealing with others around you. You can either share what you are thinking or feeling with them or you can pretend that everything is just fine. Not always easy though. TATA.

It is always wonderful to consider a friends feelings but we must not consider our friends feeling more then our own, because if we are not strong enough we cannot help our friends. So it is very important to live healthy, which includes a healthy mind in order for us to be there for friends. Not doing so would mean that you will not be healthy as depression can consume a great deal of our immunity. This is why I always mention that if I am not in good spirits it would not be fair for me to pretend and carry on as my friends would know something is wrong, and thus cause me to be a fake person. So I find that when we take a break in life we, rejuvenate and re-energize. It is then that we can go full throttle to help our friends.

Remember that All Earthly Things Shall Pass Away, and remember what shall not pass away (The Eternal Love of God)

it would be better you dont go to them just stay at home !! for some days till your problem get solved !!

well if you dont want them to know that you are sad then that would be easy. my mother is one of the people i love talking with. but since she had a heart attack and her blood shoot up... that cause her to be half bodied paralyze... from then on i always tell her i am okay. i no longer telling her too much. i try to hide to her from what i feel and just smile and tell her i am okay. its not easy but it is easier to do that than to burden her and make her worry.

I often have a situation like that. I must always look fine, and smiling in front of my whole family. While I was in a state that is very sad. There is a term, that this world stage. This term is very appropriate to me. Because my life is full of drama.

The best thing to do is to take care of yourself first. If they see that you are working your best to find a solution to your problems and they see you persevering and having strength, they will get inspired and want to do the same.

I tend to just hide my ill feelings and just forget my own problems for awhile so I could show them a smile that would say I am so glad that they are there for me.

It is best not to share your sadness with others and make them sad too, but share your jiy, happyness with all Smiling does not cost any thing keep smiling friend. Thanks for sharing Cheers. God bless you, have a nice day ahead. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. .

When I have problems, I only pray to Him. God is the only one that can comfort us more than our family, friends, relatives, etc. Every time I pray to Him..I can feel His power and that make me smile because I know that I'm not alone.

I can relate well to your post. Since i am a teacher, my mood greatly affects the kind of atmosphere my classroom has. But no matter how problematic I am I can say I am good at hiding my true emotions. I wear a mask that hides the weakness that's trying to eat me up inside. I divert my mind on other things and not let my problems affect my relation with the pupils.