No Responses - how embarassing

Number of my posts have gone unanswered. Not because they were not quality posts but because people were not interested in the subject I posted about. When you don't get any response you get upset more than getting angry. On whom you would get angry. You may perhaps take precautions not to allow it happen again by not posting in that subject.

Don't be embarrased when nobody responded to your discussion. Maybe after how many days or weeks somebody might get interested and answer. That happens to some of my old unresponded discussion. Just keep on posting and make them interesting.

It has been a long time since that happened. In fact several of us spent one evening correcting that on our various posts. Then I acquired more friends, and now someone always seems to be ready to respond to what I post.

Well I got a few discussions that received only few replies. Im not embarrassed at all. I just put in my mind that maybe Mylotters havent found my topic so interesting. I dont wanna entertain a negative feeling here in Mylot since Im here to enjoy and have some fun. I dont want to bring negativity in my sanctuary.

This is one reason why I seldom start a discussion. And another reason is that most discussions that I want to start has already been created so I just respond to that discussion. Let's just wait because somebody might have the same idea as you do and respond.

No, I dont feel embarrassed. After all people have the choice to participate in discussions that is of their interests and is w/n their knowledge. Dont feel bad, you are not alone

Personally I am not sure I have a discussion still with 0. I might have some older ones with less than 10 though. Sometimes it could be just the time of day you started the New discussion, what the discussion was about, or maybe just the interest catagory, etc. itself. I know that for me certain topics here seem to get less responses for sure. Don't let it bother you. Continue to enjoy being a member here and post when you can, and Great things will happen.

HI friend.... I have not ever been in zero response but one or two responses i got three or four times. BUt for me the most embarrassing situation is if i post a response and the starter never comment back. And if i have raised a serious issue but three or four response where as in case of silly discussion... it crosses fifty. Take care.

Hello there Glorya, It's not embarassing at all, many topic starters starts more than five topics a day and yet they don't care if there's no response from the mylotters. I think we should consider making good discussions in the future and review our post as always before posting them and not always making the discussion out of the blue.there's nothing wrong with it. just make more topics that can catch the persons attention.have a nice day.

I really don't feel anything when this happens. The reason that it really doesn't bother me is because there are times that what we are interested in are not the same things that other people are interested in. However, I do think that when someone does respond to those discussions it is important to respond back to that person whether it takes a week to get a response to the discussion or a year for someone to respond to it.

hi there, yeah I know how it feels. Haha! I had this (one) topic that have two sweet responses and I am thankful for those two mylotters who were able to be in my topic although I must admit that very few watches that show I was saying. Anyways, look you now, this topic is in Today's Top. Hehe! nice one!

Nothing to be embarrassed about my friend as it happens to many. I read just last week that some friends send some of the unresponded discussion links via pm to their friends.. and some help each other out that way. Although I myself am really busy offline these days I have been working through email alerts trying to catch up. I would not mind you sending me some via PM as I am well known to be a chatter box and I am sure I can help. So no need to be embarrassed as it really can be a combination of circumstances. Sometimes I start discussions and it is not until a day or two that the pages fill up, and in fact I still have discussions started well over a month ago that some of my myLot friends at the time were not on and finally get a moment to come on and will respond. So let me know if anything I can help with.

I won't think much about it. It's maybe my friends here don't have any ideas about the matter in my discussion.

This ruins my day. hahaha... If I make a discussion and no one answered for the whole day, sometimes I feel like I am not in the mood to answer other discussions. hahahaha... This will go on for 2 to 3 days and eventually I will start answering again.

Hi To be frank, yes, I do. I certainly do feel disappointed when I do not get any response for the discussion that I have started. It really makes me certainly give it a thought. But fortunately, there have been very few discussions that I have started which did not get any response. that was probably early in my myLotting days. Now I have many friends, so some of them will surely respond.

Yes it has happened to me once or twice. Both times a friend rescued me and made one response but it still felt embarrassing. In some ways I guess I was angry as well. I use the bar at the top to look at "no responses" or "new user" posts and I try to comment on them. I have been slack on MyLot lately though so I have fallen out of the habit. Do you go and check out the "no response" or "new user" area as well?

I feel disappointed more than anything especially for those topics that I really want to talk about. I usually get at least one or two responses though even though the topic is not that popular.

Haha I've had many discussions that have ended up with the sad fate of having no responses. I don't really care all that much. I mean, I do in a small way, it sucks that I didn't get responses - but at the same time, it's by no means 'embarrassing'. lol.

It is not embarrassing at all- I think it can happen to everyone. I just feel a bit sad that no one bothered to answer the discussion I made which I really though seriously about. But I still make more , I am not discouraged at all- since others like my other discussions and some even respond a lot of times.

Not really, I just feel sad since every discussion that I post I really think about it and I look forward to some people answering it. That's why it just makes me feel sad and disappointed. But we shouldn't be ut down by that and make better discussions.,