Do u remember your parent's Birthday?
By fjclolazy
@fjclolazy (859)
China
February 25, 2011 2:34am CST
Hi,my friends!
Nice to see u again here(I really like the sentence,lol!)
I can remember many English words and any Clothing brands...But I can't remenber others' birthday.
I always think that it is nothing serious until a friend asks me whether I can remember my parent's birthday or not.I felt sad when I couldn't answer any words.
I must say sorry to my parent,it's not just the birthday problem,I must ask myself,how much do I love them?Why can't I remember the simple numbers?Maybe I didn't love them enough I think,they aways remember my birthday and gave a party for me,why can't I?
Many people can't remember their parents' birthdays,just remember their friends' birthdays,is that right?
Hey,my dear friends,do u remember your parents' birthdays?
Have a good day!
^_^
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40 responses
@ptower76 (1616)
• United States
25 Feb 11
I always remembered my parents birthday. As a child it was important for me to give ma a gift on her birthday. Of course they were usually things she didn't need. lol But it was the thought right? Both my parents are gone now but I still think of them on their birthday and wish them well wherever they are.
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@fjclolazy (859)
• China
26 Feb 11
It's gratified that your daughter remembering your birthday every year.
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
25 Feb 11
Hi,U love them wherever they are.There isn't limit about love.Hope your kids can remenber your birthday!
@nishant5n (1067)
• India
25 Feb 11
Hi there,
Of Course I do remember my parents' birthdays.
I am able to celebrate my own birthday because of them only; I can never ever forget their birthdays.
I wish my mother every year on her birthday. My father deceased on October 10, 2002, from heart attack. I also remembers his birthday which is December 13th and used to remind my mother about his birthday, and we both remembers him and pray for his soul.
You must be thinking that now everybody will say "yes". As far as I am concerned, you can check my response to the below-mentioned discussion here at myLot, started around February 1, 2011.
http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2482633.aspx
We do celebrate my mother's birthday every year in a very decent manner. I used to wish her early in the morning and tries to make her happy by gifting her things of her choice. I also brings sweets of her choice from the market. My mother is very great, and I love her very much. She is such a great mother that whenever she feels cold, she make sure that her children are wearing sweaters.
We are six members in family, and if someone has brought five pastries, it is for sure she doesn't like pastries.
Yes, love at first sight does exist because when I saw my mother at first, I fall in love with her.
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@nishant5n (1067)
• India
26 Feb 11
Hi Seanlee,
Many thanks for sharing your feelings. Thanks for praying for my father; you are also a very good person with a kind heart.
I am very sorry, I did not get the meaning of the last line of your comment. If possible please explain it for me.
Hi Kathleenviliy,
Many thanks for sharing your feelings.
Yes I do celebrate my mom's birthday every year, but in a very decent manner. I gifted her shawl this year.
Yes, I do spend time with her; I always have time for her. We live together and I sits beside her and watch TV and talk with her. Thanks for your good advice.
You too have a great time.
@kathleenviliy (2)
• China
25 Feb 11
Hi,my friends!
I'm sorry to hear something about your father.But I will pray for him in my heart!
U celebrate your mon's birthday every year?What do u usually give her for gifts?
Remember,Spend more time to be together with your mon if u have time.
Have a good time!
@seanlee1223 (80)
• China
25 Feb 11
Hi,nishant5n! First of all, I'm very sorry about your lose. Secondly,when you say we are able to celebrate our own birthday because of our parents only, I think you must be a very good person and I couldn't agree with you more.
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
25 Feb 11
Hi,
I do remember my father's birthday,but not my mother's birthday.
I do not know exactly what is the date of my mother's birthday and
every year my siblings will SMS and let me know that tonight they
will have dinner together for my mother's birthday. So
for this year, I will be back to celebrate my mother's birthday
together with my family. This will be also the very first time
for me to celebrate my mother's birthday with my family.
All the time, I am in overseas and never got the chance to celebrate my
mother's birthday.
As my mother's birthday will be up in another 2 more months, I am looking
forward to it..
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@fjclolazy (859)
• China
25 Feb 11
Hi,my friend!
Are u ready for your mon's birthday?What will u take home for gift,I think u will be ready for many gifts,to your siblings.Right?I think your mon would be happier when she meet u at that time.
And where r u now?
Have a good time!
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
25 Feb 11
Hi dear,
In fact I don’t know my parents birth days. My father expired 20 years back and mom is with us now. We lost many of our legal and other documents long back when they transited to a different location. Mom does not remember her own birth day because they don’t require it any more, she is telling. She say her age, but can’t make out the date of birth. If we go to the municipal office, we can get it. But she says now it has no relevance as she is old enough. The same with father also. When we were kids, we never celebrated birth days and have no importance to it.
Now-a-days, birthdays are celebrating and we keep remember also. However, I loved a lot to my parents and that even they also know. Love is in the minds and I don’t think by saying or expressing love, it cannot be measured. It should be expressed, at least in the case of love – it can be of any kind of love, it should be experienced.
Tank-s
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
25 Feb 11
Hi,my friend!
I'm sorry about your father.I can feel how much u love your mather.Love can be expressed by something wispy.Love is not only a word,it's something we can't see but can feel.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
25 Feb 11
Hi dear,
It is alright. We will not get everything for ever. But I love my father so much and he was my role model and he taught many valuable things in my life. He is an exception and it is difficult for me to find such a man in my whole life. Really he is an exception and I admire him for his greatness.
Hope your father and mother also love you so much and you also love them as much you can. They are the living Gods and I don't think we don't have any other name for God, after our mom and dad.
Thank-s
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@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
25 Feb 11
Not remembering your parents birthday's is not a crime. I sometimes forget my parents birthday. I sometimes forget because I have a lot on my mind. In no way does it mean that you don't love them that much it just means you have other things on your mind or you are busy.
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@fjclolazy (859)
• China
26 Feb 11
Hi,my friend!
I agree with u.So I have a chance to say I love them much,just not remembering their birthdays.
I really have much things on my mind!
@kramsgir (146)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
hello:))
I remember my parent's birthday, but i forgot the year..hehe., Actually we celebrated my papa's birthday last February 22.. and i'm looking forward for my mom's birthday this July. I'm even planning on buying something for my wonderful mom:))
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
25 Feb 11
Hi,my friend,
It may be exciting for planning your mom's birthday,what did u give ur papa for birthday gift?And what will u want to give your mon for gift later?Are u ready?
@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
25 Feb 11
Yes, I remember my dad, my mom's birthday. I do give them cards and gifts each year. My mom is not a very expressive person, she won't show she wants that we celebrate for her birthday but indeed when she receive things from my sister and I, she is very happy that we can tell. For my dad, he will be happy like a clam when he receives things from us!
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@fjclolazy (859)
• China
26 Feb 11
Hi,my friend!
My mom isn't also a expressive person.When I asked what she really wanted to get for gift in Mother's Day!She wouldn't say any words.But she were still excited when she got gifts.
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
26 Feb 11
Hi,my friend!
Parents think the day their children was born is the most important.So they would remember them with heart.
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@sathishkumar3660 (325)
• India
25 Feb 11
I remember the important dates like birthday, wedding day or any other occasion occurred of my friends, family and others who are close to me. I still wish them all in their special days, i also don't forget because i have noted down all the special days in my computer, through that i wish them easily. But i wish my beloved ones without seeing it.
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
26 Feb 11
Hi,my friend!
lol~~~There's no need to worry about your beloved ones who would see your notes in pc.I think she would understand u,lol~~~
I would also remember some special days.But not the birthday!!!
Have a good time!
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
of course i do remember my parents birthday though sometimes i forgot their age, i just remember that my mother is 6 years older than my father, when i was i girl somewhat in my elementary years i always make birthday card for them, though simple but yet they appreciate it, and i feel happy about it.
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
26 Feb 11
Hi,my friend!
I do remember my parent's age,but I can't remember the dates of birthday.I just made cards for my teachers and sister before.I have never made cars for my parents.It's a good idea to make a cards for them next time!
Have a good time!^_^
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
25 Feb 11
Actually I was really bad at remembering dates, but i had this friend who would always remember my birthday but i never did the same. i felt so bad so now I remember birth dates of the people whom i care for.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
25 Feb 11
Yep i remember the birth dates of all the people i care and love.
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
25 Feb 11
Hi,my friend!
Your friend seems to care for u very much,so I think u have to remember his/her birthday in your heart.Your parent must love u more,but can u remember their birthdays?
Have a good time!
@asianjabba (158)
• United States
26 Feb 11
You know, after reading your post I realize how embarrassed I am by saying I don't remember my parents or my in-laws birthday. I don't know why, but it was never something I had to remember. They would always tell me in advance, "It's my birthday next week, let's go out to dinner". And that is that. But if I were to say I forgot my WIFE'S birthday...I probably wouldn't be alive to make this post!
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
26 Feb 11
Hi,my friend!
It's ok about forgetting,take it easy!Hope u can remember their birthdays.So u will have a chance to say "How about going out for your birthday" before they say this.lol~~~
I would be really sad and angry when my future husband forget my birthday or marriage day...Give a surprise to your wife for her next birthday!She would love u more...
Have a good time!
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
Yes. But that's half-true. I only remember the day and month -- no idea on what year. lol. My mom's birthday was October 15 and my dad's was December 9.
But, hey. At least I know when to celebrate their birthday. For my family, birthdays are very special occasions.
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@fjclolazy (859)
• China
26 Feb 11
Hi,my friend!
I can remember which years they were born,but I have no idea about their dates.
Yeah,birthdays are very special occasions for family to be together.Have fun with family!
Have a good time!
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
20 Mar 11
Hi,my friend!
Good memory!
Believe or not,I even couldn't remember my birthday before...But I can remember it now,coz I have some cool memories of those days.I would use your method to remember my friends' birthday.
@shaggin (72288)
• United States
25 Feb 11
It isnt a matter of how much you love your parents. I am sure you love them a lot. Just because you cannot remember their birthdays doesnt mean you dont love them. I do remember the day they were born on such as my mother was born December 6th but I dont know what year lol. Same thing with my father I know the day he was born but not the year. So when it comes to how old they are I can only guess around 50.
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
26 Feb 11
Hi,my friend!
I do rememner the years they were born,lol~~~But I can't remember the dates.I agree with u about forgetting.It doesn't mean that I don't love them enough.
U could ask them how old they were when u were born.So u will know which years they were born.lol~~~
Have a good time!
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
26 Feb 11
Hi,my friend!
Congratulation!U can remember two loved person's birthday at the same time,lol~~~And did u give the same birthday gifts to them?Have u ever gotten confused with them?
My dad also can't remember my birthday,but my mom can remember!
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
26 Feb 11
Hi,my friend!
I couldn't remember my parent's birthdays,but I was afraid that they noticed that I had no idea about their birthdays.So I asked them just like this:"You had the bad memory,and do u still remember your birthday?"How about the idea?
Have a good time!
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
26 Feb 11
Oh no, I don't remember!
This is a surprise when I can remember birthdays of all my friends but I can't remember my parents' birthday.
I used to ask them about it. But I forgot after that.
Uhm, do you think that we should remember our parents' birthday?
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
26 Feb 11
Hi,my friend!
It's really surprised that u can't remember your parent's bithdays but can still remember your friends'...But it's ok.U can remember from right now.
Yeah,we should all remember our parents' birthday,don't u think so?
Have a good time!
@Centrifuge (5)
• United States
26 Feb 11
You're not the only one in on this. I tend to forget their birthdays as well. I believe that it tends to lead more towards the way of what's the point of remembering their birthday if I can't afford anything for them rather then not remembering it because I don't love them. Regardless of whether you remember it or not, there's still that love inside.
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
26 Feb 11
Hi,my friend!
Regardless of whether we remember it or not,I believe we still love them inside.Love is not just living in remembering or the days!
Hope have a good time!!!