Son need his family care of him, so he rampage .... how you thing???
By fchalida
@fchalida (196)
Indonesia
February 25, 2011 8:43am CST
when I deliver my daughter to school at 8 o'clock in the morning. I was waiting her for awhile and chated with the mother at school. I saw one mom deliver her son to school, and leave him directly. Suddenly he rampage, he threw his foods, he threw his bag, he cut into pieces his chichen, he said: i cuting this chichen for not tobe eaten. He screamings all the time, he threw his shoes. I feel what is happen to him? how his family treating him at his house?. The others mother said that he is from rich family, his house is like as a palace. His grand father is from the politicians. The mother said to us he always locked at his room. She said she afraid that he could want to broken the expensive furnitures. Do you imagine what my story? Really, i love the children. And when i see that incident in front of me i feel want to cry, i feel want to hug him. I feel angry to his mother. THe god give him easy to have children but she wasting him like that. Oh... my god. What is going tobe if he is growing up later? Days long ago i remember that his big sister said to me that the mother beaten him. how you thing of this????
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@marguicha (224032)
• Chile
25 Feb 11
I would not act only on what I see. Maybe at school teachers know how to handle him. If he was a terrified abused boy, he would not do that. He´s acostumed to get what he wants that way. Maybe thier parents are not much with him and they have maids who do not have the power to stop him.
In my times, such a behaviour meant a spank on the butt.
@dont_pick_your_nose (2279)
• Australia
25 May 11
If he really is geing abuse or needs help of any kind please report this to the authorities in your country, im not sure where you live or how it works there, ut here in australia there would be help provided firstly for the child the family involved and proabably the community, with help from media and police.
@dont_pick_your_nose (2279)
• Australia
25 May 11
This is very odd and i would think that if you or anyone tht you know well think that this child is in harm or being harmed included locked in a room then this should be reported to the authorities.
Being the mother of an autistic child however and seeing these tantrums first hand, which my kindy one on one carer that i provide with government fnding assistantce advises me to leave as soon as i am comfortable leaving as it is easier to managed my son when he doens't have me to boss around so to speak. So my question to you, is by the description of this child he has a learning deficency, he has social problems learning difficulties and problems adjusting to change and environment. does this mean he is not eligable to go to kindy or school or just not around your children? I can assure you it is quite embarrassing for the parent of a disabled child to perform the most simplest of tasks, such as dropping her child off to kindy or visiting the bank 4 me... where i am struggling with all my might to keep him still, myself safe as he will violently attack me bite kick and scream, of course he is not treated like this at home!! What kind of a question is that? Where is your heasd at, for that to be the first thing you think. I dont usually get insulted. but i have seen those stares directed at me, and think some of the little prissess out there who think a hard day with the kids, is when one is rude should read up on some of the learning and physical disabilities out there that your family was blessed enough not to endure first hand, because i think it takes a real mother to be out there doing her day to day things the best she can and trying to provide the most normal life she can for her child/children. he is a frustrated child who cannot communicate as we can, and what sometimes may look aburpt or mean to you could simply be to keep myself safe during these tantrums that can draw blood and also self harm themselves through frustration. The key is understanding not judging and assuming. When you ASSUME you make and Assout of you and me! I would like to share some text i just posted on my facebook, it is from a textbook and might atleast 1 mylotter to undertand as i am finding no Autism information here and doing what i can to change that.