Have you ever worried about life in the future?
By Polang
@tkonlinevn (6438)
Vietnam
February 25, 2011 10:04pm CST
Life is beautiful. But I sometimes feel worry about my life in the future.
I scare that I can't buy an own house. I can't earn enough to feed my children. I scare poor, I scare illness etc...
How are you? Have you ever worried about life in the future?
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26 responses
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
26 Feb 11
Many that I fear about my future life, and also the future of my family. If I think about it, I became very stressful. I do not know, the future is like what, which is owned by me, and my family. I can only try my best, and as I could, to create a better future.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
1 Mar 11
You're here and you can say about what you're worrying. This is saying that you're looking for the good way for you and your family's future. You chose to reach to the best thing. You'll be successful. Believe it, my friend!
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@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
28 Feb 11
Hi my friend,
The future of yours and your family is good. Don't worry much. We worry about future in order that we could find the ways to make our future better. So, you should think about the optimistic of it.
Wish you happy and peace!
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@danitykane (3183)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
Oh yes... like all the time. I sometimes scared of losing all the things I have and I tend to worry about how will I make a better living. It is more about money matters. It is hard to save nowadays unlike before and I can really feel that I could get broke soon if I stop working. I am scared that I am not able to help my family in years to come because I need to attend on my own financial problem. I am scared too. But you know I still have fauth and I believe that everything will just turn out right. I let God to decide about my future and I am just here to hassle for my dreams and do my very best to be successful.
Happy Lotting!
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
28 Feb 11
I think we should stop worry now.
We can think that we could meet some problems in the future. But when they'll got to, we'll do everything to solve them, right?
I read much worry from friends hear, I begin to feel stress now
@aimankarikal (169)
• India
28 Feb 11
i am bit worried because i have to face my future which may be with uncertainities so as a student i am worried a bit about my future.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
26 Feb 11
well it doesn,t do any good to worry about life just take one day at a time.i know there is certain ones who just cant help it that they,re over anxious about life but this only give you a bad stomach problem in a long run.you know how you get up in the morning to start your day and nothing seems to go right this is like life.you give and take one day at time for tomorrow is not promise to you.we can only hope that life runs smoothly.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
28 Feb 11
I always pray that life will be smoothly everyday. But I realize that life is an against. I sometimes must against with myself to grow up in this life.
@craftyhomebody (443)
• United States
26 Feb 11
yes i worry about it alot i have a home a that is paid for and the property is also but i lost my husbaand and his life insurance paid it all off i worry that if
i lo se my job i would not be able ato pay the taxes on it and i will lose it i am
also at the age that retirement is just around the concer and i have nothing saved and i know there will be no social secruity left by the time i get there and i also worry that i havent left my children enough life insurane for my kids and grand kids because i want them to be taken care of also
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
28 Feb 11
Oh, I understand you.
In this step of life, we have much more things to worry. But I believe that you'll be happy in the next time. Don't worry anymore, believe in you children and your husband.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
28 Feb 11
Hi my friend,
I hope there are many good things will be with you in 5 years from now.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
26 Feb 11
Yes life is pretty good at the moment but i'm scared of the future. I fear the feelings of not being able to do the things i want in life, the health of my family and myself, the happiness everything. But I'm willing to work hard to achieve everything My family and I want =D
Good luck with life.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
28 Feb 11
Yes, we mus will everyday to live and because we hope that our future will be better than present.
I wish you and will be successful with life in the future.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
28 Feb 11
aww thank you so much. I hope you have a good and successful life too. Good luck..
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
26 Feb 11
Yes, I think it is because I don't have a stable income right now. If I had, I will never worried anymore mostly things like married and own house because I have my own money.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
28 Feb 11
Oh, my friend. I'm having a stable job and a stable income now. But my income is few. I need more to solve many problems of my life.
I hope that you can find a stable income in the future. And you can change to worry about another problems of life
@hotsummer (13837)
• Philippines
26 Feb 11
i have too many things i should be worried about, but i don't try to think of them. i hope that i can solve my problems but thinking about them does not solve any thing also. so what can i do about them. there is nothing i can do for now. so i just stop worrying and just hope for the best.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
28 Feb 11
I wish I can do like you. I tried to say with myself that future have not just reached. But I still worry about it
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
28 Feb 11
Keep your believer, my friend.
I'm a Christan too. I believe in God.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
26 Feb 11
At one time or another i think we all have worried feelings about the future. i know that i have. i try not to dwell on those feelings though. Just finding ways to motivate my life for the future can be trying enough.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
28 Feb 11
I wish you will be successful. I'll try to escape every times I feel worry about future.
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
26 Feb 11
I try not to think about the future. If I do I will worry about it and there is nothing I can do to change it. I have a progresive disease and when the time comes that I need to be in a wheelchair all of the time, I will have to move. My house is too small to get around in a wheelchair, and there are a lot of steps. I also worry about not being able to drive. My driveway is 175 feet long, and the only way I can get the mail is to drive up. Plus the loss of freedom that being able to drive gives you. I live alone so it would be hard to get around. I have no children to drive me around or anything. I feel there is no sense in worrying about something you can't change, so I just try not to think about it.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
28 Feb 11
Hi my friend,
I'm sorry to hear your story. I hope that you won't meet the problem which you said.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
26 Feb 11
It is normal to worry about the future. Uncertainties always make us worry. But we should not be worried. If I may quote the bible it says, "therefore I tell you do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food and the body more important than clothes? Look at the birds of the air, they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life? And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow? They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these."
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
28 Feb 11
When we're worry about any things, we can say them to our God. I till do this. But I also look for the ways to solve the problems of life. I never sit a place to only worry.
@staria (2780)
• Philippines
26 Feb 11
Of course, as a mom I do worry a lot. Especially for my kids' future. I worry if I can get them to a good school and if I can raise them to be good kids/citizens. There's a lot of things to worry about, but as long as you trust that God will help you out, you will feel that you are not alone. There's help if you will just ask for it. And God said that we should not worry about tomorrow. So live one day at a time and put your worries behind. After all, your future is the product of your today.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
28 Feb 11
Everyone have different worries about future. I hope that we could have the things which we want to have in it.
@vannyt (343)
• Philippines
26 Feb 11
Well my friend....you're not the only one worried about the future, scared of poverty, illness and everything unpleasant. I thing majority if not all have these things to worry about. Some even greater than this. But even with these things to worry about, we have to live each day with courage and determination. Always be grateful and SMILE cause like what you've LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
28 Feb 11
I always like to live with many smiles even I don't have more money in my wallet.
I believe that the future will be better than what I think.
Wish you happy!
@lizzyt2007 (1312)
• Craig, Alaska
26 Feb 11
I do worry at times about my future. I am a single mom and the worry that we're never going to own a home worries me. I am so tired of living in a apartment. I have a hard to keeping work cause of my disability so I worry if I don't get some kind of extra income that our future don't look so bright. I want to move but I know at the right I am going that will probably not happen. Life sure is tough. I try to remember the saying live one day at a time. That's really hard to do when your on a fixed income in a expensive tiny town.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
28 Feb 11
I understand that you have more problems than me. So, you maybe worry about life much. Keep you in believe, my friend.
Difficulties will be passed even they're over your power.
@ik4man (627)
• Malaysia
26 Feb 11
I did scared of my future when i was single. Now i have my own family and the life goes as it is. What i have now is the end result of what i was before. I think what we should do is to equip ourselves for better life or future....study well to get better occupation, decide on a good partner to depend on. Nothing to scare of if you are well prepare for the future.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
28 Feb 11
But how much repairing is enough for the future? I think that we was born to live, not repairing to live. Therefore, If we have some repairing, we'll be in more secure about our future.
@shrijsr (574)
• Bangalore, India
26 Feb 11
Hello friend!
Life is something to be enjoyed. Every minute is a gift and every day is something new in which we learn and earn experiences!
But, as humans, the hope of tomorrow along with it brings the fear of the future! No doubt everyone worries about the future. But we need to make sure that the worries doesn't kill the happiness of the today's life!
Future is just a hope which could be true or not, but today is a fact and we need to concentrate on today than tomorrow!
Good day!
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
28 Feb 11
Maybe you're right. I hope that I can have many things in the future. So, I scare that I can't reach to them. Then, I feel fear about future.
But If we don't dream, we won't have target to reach. I think that I'll think about future fewer in the next time.
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@ishtariray (47)
•
26 Feb 11
Its normal to worry about your future. But the most important thing is you make actions in the present to prevent your worries from happening in the future. God bless you!
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
28 Feb 11
Thank you. I'll do your advice.
I wish you're happy and successful in the future.
@LaLaNoShade (45)
• United States
26 Feb 11
Sometimes I do worry about my future. I feel as though I'm getting older but nothing is being accomplished. I guess it's true that you are your own worse critic. I think that focusing on the things we don't have some how out way the things we do. We often forget to enjoy what life has brought us, instead of what we think we should have. If it is meant to be, then it will be. Great post..
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
28 Feb 11
Thank you for your response.
We should focus on our problems at present and solving them. So, we can have a good future, right?
@asianjabba (158)
• United States
26 Feb 11
I do not worry about life in the future at all. In fact, I am more excited than ever about the future. I am excited for whatever technological and medical advances we will have in 30 years. I hope many sicknesses and diseases will be taken care of by then. I don't think cars will be flying yet, but I am sure the future will be very advanced and exciting.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
28 Feb 11
You're very optimistic about future. You're right that life will be more better and better. But that is general. I want to say my life. There are many difficulties at present, so I feel worry about future.