What are the things that we'll do for love?
By ada8may21
@ada8may21 (2405)
Philippines
February 26, 2011 4:48am CST
Can anyone share to me what are the things that are willing to do when it comes to love or things that you have done when it comes to love.
To start with let me share the things that I have done when it comes to love:
- I've ignored the truth and believe on his lies.
- I've waited in front of his door for more than 12 hours and only to find out there is another girl inside his house.
-I've given him second chances, third chances and fourth chances and so much more
-I've accepted him, even if he cheated on me, fooled me, and hurt me.
-I stayed faithful to him even if we are no longer in a relationship.
-I keep on waiting for him, even if he dont have plans of coming back.
So sad, its so martyr but these are the things I have done when it comes to love.
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7 responses
@dheckerz (473)
• Philippines
26 Feb 11
You'll strive even harder would it be in school or work for your love one. But after reading your experience, I would suggest not to waste time and efforts. Try to talk to him and don't get too emotional, you should save your love for someone who will love you better. There's always somebody for us. My sister had almost similar situation with you before but when she finally broke up with the guy she became more successful and happy and found a husband right now who is so loving and very opposite from her ex. I hope you find yours too.
@dheckerz (473)
• Philippines
26 Feb 11
After all, it's your relationship and you know the best answer to it. You may want to have a heart to heart talk with him. Knowing that guy is with another girl and does let you wait for more than 12 hours and other stuffs you've metioned. Then tell me if it's love.. I'm so sorry, I don't mean to be rude here, but I'm in a relationship right now and thank God that so far I haven't seen/heard my fiancee being infidel to me nor did those things. If you really love each other then you should communicate and clear out your past issues to have a more happy and fruitful relationship.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
26 Feb 11
I know its hard to believe but this is where I am happy to be with him. I already tried to broke up with him. In fact, we have broke up for more than 6 months but its him who finds way to be with me again. I wanted to say "no" but I can no longer hold on and pretend to himself. So I still yes, to him over and over again. That is why I can no longer give my heart to anyone if my heart still beats for him and longing for him.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
I agree that after all its my relationship. Dont worry I am not taking you rude or mean. Yes before I accepted him for another chance in our relationship we already cleared out everything and we already set things straight out. He feels sorry and he promise not to do it again. I accepted him because I love him so much and would forgive him for all his mistakes. Anyways, its not about cheating that we always have an argument its about his time with me.
@AnnaDine (92)
• Denmark
26 Feb 11
I will do the same for my boyfriend. I just think it's because we are so in love as we is. And that make us do something we wouldn't do for a good friend or for a other person. I will do anything for my boyfriend, even if he hurts me a lot sometimes. I forgive him, and moves on.
Sometimes I also can have the feeling that he wouldn't do the same for me, but when it comes to the time, when I hurt him. He forgive me too, and that's here I find out, that he really love me too.
unfortunately it's also by hurting him, I find out that I really love him, and never will let him go.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
26 Feb 11
I agree with you that because we are very much in love that's why we can do such things. All though its crazy for others once they knew about it, but that's the power of love and its unmeasurable right.
Good thing that in the long run, you still finds out that he really loves you and that is what matters most in everythng in this world.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
That's true sometimes I had an argument with my friend, they are complaining why I am allowing him of hurting me. Because when ever we had an argument I always run to them and cry. Once they will see me crying they are feel hurt as well and they hated my boyfriend for this. But true it really doesn't matter if they hated my beau but at least he makes me happy more than anything else in this world.
@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
28 Feb 11
You are madly in love to him , that's the ugly truth. I have heard so many painful stories from you about this guy and honestly I think I can't do what you have done. I can barely take pains if that wont involve being unfaithful. Being unfaithful is such a big issue to me...
About your question , what I have done for love? I have wasted my time, forget our family for awhile, took my pride, and forget all the stiff and ideal principles I had... but no matter how painful was my love story I didn't regret because that's the only wrong I have done in my life that made me right.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
28 Feb 11
Its really the ugly truth about it friend, I know being unfaithful is really a big issue, I wanted to let go and just continue but too late I am head over heels crazy for him.
I am touch with your line friend, "that's the only wrong I have done in my life that made me right" super super touch. Lucky you, and lucky him as well as Kokong...
@maryjane41 (90)
• Abbeville, Mississippi
26 Feb 11
that sounds like me. i have beleived his lies. and gave him chance after chance. i even waited on him knowing he was not comeing back. i have even done things that i really regret today. but i have learned from my past. and today my daugther is going though the same but she will not listen. there is some one out there for you. do not give up on just him.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
Its really rough for me, whom I could say not so LUCKY in LOVE. But tell you what even if he hurts me twice and many times, I still love him now, but yes I am so foolish of loving him. If only I could dictate to my heart to stop loving I have done that long time ago. But no I could not do that, I keep on manipulating my mind that I dont love him at all, but I am just fooling my own self. I guess I'll just have to wait until such time he will appreciate all the things I have done for him and hopefully its not too late.
@hemlockspruce25 (501)
• Philippines
26 Feb 11
I am lucky in love.
Lucky in the sense that I have fallen in love with a person I know who is uncapable of hurting me.
And here I am now, love is so powerful and overwhelming that I've reached the point of going against my own personal beliefs.
Because of love I began to see clearly that love is really not blind.
But it sees beyond the imperfections.
My dear, you should save yourself for someone special.
Your heart is your most precious possession not be wasted on men like him.
:)
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
26 Feb 11
I am so jealous of you because you've given your hurt to the person who is incapable of hurting you. I must do the same however, its too late because I am head over heels to him and I can no longer let go and move on without having him in my life. I know its crazy but I am just loving him and I am happy being with him. So I guess I just have to wait until my heart get tired of loving him without reciprocating it.
So sad but this would be my decision. I wait for him and I'll wait until my heart stop beating to him.
@hemlockspruce25 (501)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
I just hope that when the time comes that your heart no longer beats for him, you won't end up with nothing left for yourself.
Love yourself more as you are a person worthy of loving.
And hopefully your patience in waiting for him won't be in vain..
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
I am really hoping for the best in this relationship I have. I hope there is no time that my heart would no longer beats for him, but ever that would happen. I'll start picking up pieces of my heart. It may be sad but I know I can get over it.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
That's a lot to say and I could not ask for more. I hope that sacrifice would had for the one you love doesn't mean giving up your own happiness.
@sais06 (1284)
• Philippines
5 Mar 11
I will accept everything about her past for what she has and she hasn't. I think that's what I will do for love.
Now in your case, that's really martyrdom I say. Well I have heard lots of stories same as yours and I guess those really are the things a person would do for love. I don't know how you are still able to withstand it but it's like tormenting your own self. I can't understand also how you can become happy with that. Remember that sacrifice means nothing if wasted. I think you have been bounded emotionally to him and that is why you can't let go. Others will not value your love no matter how great or heroic it was if you don't know how to put it into something worthful.
That's so much love for him and maybe you can't let go because nothing's already left for yourself. I just can't help it but worry about you.