Who is Disppointed?

@cmecu6 (420)
United States
February 26, 2011 9:15pm CST
Has anyone here ever been disappointed for whatever the reason? How do you get over that disappointment? I know that life has its disappointment, and who we are or becomes depends on what we make of that disappointment or does it?
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@agrim94 (3805)
• India
27 Feb 11
Hi cmecu6, Life is a very long period of time and it has everything, happiness, joys, sadness, hurt, profits , losses and ofcourse disappointments. Everyone gets disappointed time to time for so many reasons, job, children , spouce, lover , etc. What i feel is try to find the reason for disappointment, like if your exam result is disappointing then you can work hard, but if reason is not in your hand or can not find the reason then time is biggest healer. It heals everything. So give it time and every disappointment would be forgotten or forgiven.
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• Romania
25 Sep 11
The main reason of disappointment in my life was the wrong impression I had on people. After so many unbelievable that happened to me, I don't trust anyone at all. I've never been a naive person, but this things I've been through changed me completely.
@cmecu6 (420)
• United States
26 Sep 11
Take your time with trust, there are a few whom I'm sure are worthy of your trust. Weeding them out are/will be difficult, but they are out there.. Good luck.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
4 Jul 11
Life is full of disappointment that I have so much experience with it. The girl I love, I thought through time, she can love me back, if I would give her respect, loyalty, and sincerity of everything I got to love her. At the end, I simply realize that she never loves me back, and I knew that I am not the one for her. That is a big disappointment for me, actually a harsh one already. Another disappointment will be I thought I can start a business with a trusted friend. Actually, this so - called business didn't work out, I had customers call in, but they never place order. At the end, my friend con me with $7000.00 credit card bill, and a court order that I have to pay that money since the business credit card was under my name. He used all that money for something else, and none of it for business. I should kill myself for that right? So, I faced more disappointment than anybody does.
@cmecu6 (420)
• United States
13 Jul 11
kingparker, It is very unfortunate about your situation, but don't let people like them take you down. Don't give them the satisfaction! As for the girl.. Consider it her loss... Someone like that might not be worthy of your love anyway.. I am one of those who believe that there is someone for everyone. Someone more worthy will come your way soon.. Your so call friend... easy come, easy go... That money won't fill him up, not in the way that counts. He will pay for his crime.. Just because you don't see it, don't mean he won't or is not... Take care... Things will look up...
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
25 Sep 11
Sometimes, disappointment, comes at a time when it is necessary to see that go astray and should change something in your life. You awake in a moment that just do not see reality correctly. It can happen to have too high expectations from others. It can happen to be disappointed because you expected more than you could provide ... are disappointed, because reality does not match the reality you live where you think you live There are recipes and steps with which to go faster or easier than a disappointment. Everything to be good, it takes time, patience and a positive attitude. How a different man overcome disappointments. Some people can recover within a week, others a few months or years. It all depends on the seriousness involved. For many, a disappointment could be on a personal level, especially in a relationship. Expectations are much higher than can happen automatically occur feelings of disappointment. It does not mean you should not have expectations, just as we have those expectations not be impossible ...
@Pranka (32)
• India
13 Apr 11
I am so disappointed at this point of my life. Just had a break up and career graph is stagnant. Life is so monotonous and miserable. What I am trying to do is to put all my energy into my career because there is nothing else to look forward to at this point of time. I am hoping that with an advance in my career, things might get well in my life. Having a partner in my life is not something I can control, so I am focusing all my energy into something I can control. Things will be better soon, I believe. Rest is destiny.
@cmecu6 (420)
• United States
15 Apr 11
Pranka, sorry to hear about your break up. Hope thing look up for you soon.
@sanijas83 (270)
• Latvia
19 Jun 11
I have had some disappointments I still cannot forget. I just have to keep on living and try to find things to enjoy in my daily life. Maybe time will heal the wounds of life. Music brings pleasant moments in my life.
@cmecu6 (420)
• United States
22 Jun 11
In life there will always be disappointments. I know this to be true because I too have experience many life disappointments. All we can do is make the most of those disappointments and continue to live life to its fullest. I have come to realized that while there are disappointments, there are also blessings. I learned to thrived on those blessings.
• United States
27 Feb 11
I'm vastly disappointed right now. In myself, in the choices that I've made, and the catalyst of which was my disappointment with how a school project of mine turned out. How am I going to get over it? Well the same way I've always gotten over disappointment. I'll bite back my misery, put on my best face, say a prayer, and hope that I've learned and can avoid making the same mistakes again in the future. It's really all that I can do.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
hello, Everyone faced disappointment. The thing is,how will we overcome or how will we look at it on the brighter side. When we feel disappointed we feels sad too. Don't let such situation ruin the rest of the day. Think every positive reason behind disappointment. Or,think better solution. have a great Sunday and enjoy mylot
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
Hello. Everybody feels disappointed one way or another. We are just humans and we have expectations but remember that there is nothing perfect in this world and in this life that disappointment or getting disappointed is inevitable. Yes , I have been disappointed a lot of times. And, how do i get over it? By simply trying to move on a nd set a new goal or expectations. It helps accepting the fact that there are things that are not meant to be and not meant for me, so, ok, so be it. Try again next time.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
27 Feb 11
Life is filled with achievements and it also filled with its share of disappointments. I don't think anyone can life their life without having to face disappointment. When I am diappointed, I can feel sad, annoyed, frustrated and discouraged. I try to get over the disappointment by trying to find something positive and happy to focus on. Time is the best healer for disappointment and we deal with our truths in the best ways that we can.
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
I think almost all of us experienced disappointment in some point of our lives. I do, I get disappointed when I didn't get what I really wanted. We can't always get what we want at all times, but if we really try, sometimes we find/get what we really need. The world doesn't give us everything we want and we just have to deal with that. Think of this disappointment i fuel for our fire. We have to use it to make ourselves better. ;)
@sais06 (1284)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
We become disappointed because we look at our mistakes and that will continue if we don't look away from it. This is what happens to me every time I think of the wrong decisions that I've had but I didn't stick to that disappointment and instead made it as an example in my present situation so that I won't do something like that again. Yes everyone of us gets disappointed but we must not allow that disappointment to turn us down but instead we must turn the disappointment down.
• United States
27 Feb 11
Hi cmecu6, Disappointment is not fun. I have been disappointed alot in my live. The best why to deal with it is to learn from it and move on. If it bothers you that bad talk to the person that disappointed you and let them know how it made you feel. Don't let it eat you up inside. Because it will be with you for life if you do. It will only hurt you and they will never know it was a disappointment to you and if they do no shame on them. If they know tell them off. Good luck and god bless.
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
Being able not ot do my best disappoints me. When I knew I could have done better but i didn't. Had experienced one extreme disppointment with myself when I got embarassed by a professor in front of the class. That removed my enthusiasm in that subject and I rarely entered that class and despised that class and professor ever. That's part of my life when I was a student.