Find your way out of the desperate situation

I agree that situations become desperate when people become desperate as well. Desperation for me is losing hope and giving up, not doing anything at all to find a way out. It's the same as the saying that if there's a will then there's a way. It's giving up even without even trying something to find their way out.

Hi Lyuesong, Desperate situations calls for desperate actions, this is what they say. Yes i dont deny that i have never panicked in desperate situations i have many times but over the time i have realised that if i think with cool head it is always better so i dont react immediately now a days but wait till my panic/anger is over and then think and act. This way most of problems are solved.. and very few remain which i got no control on.

In desperate situations we often panic leading to our minds not thinking clearly. It happens so easily. We have to learn to take deep breaths and think about things more instead of letting the worry eat us alive!

hello lyue, I've read one article saying that "emotional intelligent is" when you speak out what you feel rather than concentrating on situation. eg: when you are sad,simply say "you feel sad" instead of saying,i lost my dog,that's why i am sad.(say first what you feel before telling the reason why) In same situation with depression. Find time to feel the sadness,or loneliness (it's a natural feeling) then,afterwards move on. Never let desperate situation drown you into emptiness. It's normal to stay alone for sometime and be in silent (sometimes we can think much better when we are all alone) but never let sadness drift you away from real world. Yes,you are right...we should always finds a way out to overcome every desperate situation,or else,you will be at lost. Have a great Sunday and enjoy mylotting

~"Man can live about 40 days without food, about 3 days without water, about 8 minutes without air, but only for one second without hope."~