Friends are there for you?

@dhawanbm (3705)
India
February 26, 2011 11:45pm CST
In times of distress one could be in for asking, there is need, you need help and want to cry your throat out but in vain. Imagine if you have good friends then it could be a matter of time when they arrive and help you out. So in order to promote ease in life one needs to be more arriving at friends,making new ones and taking to old ones often. Remembering older ones is good, if you are free on off days, weekends and sundays and holidays, just call one of those oldees whom you had fondly been with all those days of yore and remembering all those nostalgic days is so good.
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3 responses
@khalida (1126)
• India
27 Feb 11
i like the fact that you are reminding us to call are besties but sometimes a point comes in life when all your friends are busy with their own lives too. you should be able to cope with your problems on your own sometimes
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
Yeah, i agree with you khalida, there are times as well that we don't have to need someone to help us, we should realize sometimes how to manage our own problems, that we might not be able to became dependent on them.
@dhawanbm (3705)
• India
27 Feb 11
more over khalida it is the good friends who are always there for you they are a kind of sahara or say managers of some of the problems which you could confide in always for sure, theya re there to get to the probs and help out
@khalida (1126)
• India
27 Feb 11
kheydia and dhawanbm: well that is a hard fact of life i guess dhawa, sure, friends will always be there but you need to set up your mind to face anything in your life right? thats what i do and i think this attitude can help you go a long way
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
Friends are part of our being human, if you don't have a friend you are the loneliest person here on earth. It's true also that friends help promote ease in life as what you mention as there are times we might need their help when we have some problems, but remember that we should not treat our friends as a problem solver, they are as well human beings they got problems of their own as well and they also need someone to be there for them.
@dhawanbm (3705)
• India
27 Feb 11
kheydia, it is the human peredicament that we seek happiness in the company of friends, they are always there to make you happy, give pleasurable moments and lend a helping hand too!
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
28 Feb 11
Yes it's true that we find happiness and pleasure with our friends, i do feel that too, and i am happy with my friends. i do have lot's of friends in this world and i love them, each one is unique and have their own personality. and i do accept them for who they are, but in my part i do not always seek happiness to my friends, i can be happy though they are not around or far away from me because it is so hard to depend my happiness to just a person, because if i depended my happiness to them, what if they'll be gone what will happen to me? i'll be miserable, i had felt that before, but now i already know how to handle things. I have a wonderful husband and a so adorable little baby girl and they make me happy everyday in my life.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
27 Feb 11
I have these friends back home who would come help me anytime of the day. They're the bestest and the oldest friends i have, since school. I have not met friends better then them ever. I miss them a lot.
@dhawanbm (3705)
• India
27 Feb 11
yes they would come out to help you in case you need any, but the thing is that you should have reliable ones who dare to smart out on the odds against you!