Can loving someone be wrong?

Philippines
February 27, 2011 3:58am CST
IS there some rule in love where it says that loving someone is wrong? Share your point of views guys..
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9 responses
junrapmian
@junrapmian (2169)
• Philippines
28 Feb 11
It looks like the song "We have the right love at the wrong time". There are love stories in real life that can not be realized because of some hindrance or barriers. It could be the parents or their economic status in the society or it could be the physical differences. But I think if both of you love each other, you should be able to fight all the barriers and the challenges so your love stories can come into realization.
fourjems08
@fourjems08 (550)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
That is so true. There are times when we have loved someone yet many hinders this love to grow. It will only depend to the two people involved how long they can hold on to fight for each other. In the end they may either have each other or they may decide to stop fighting for their love and break up.
cloudi
@cloudi (330)
•
27 Feb 11
I agree with lilaclady that love in certain circumstances can be a bit dangerous. Of course the emotion itself should never be seen as wrong. Love is a powerful emotion and much better to feel than negative emotions.
fourjems08
@fourjems08 (550)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
Yes indeed to love someone isn't wrong but under any circumstances it might be wrong to love that person. I agree that it is better to love and get hurt than never to have loved at all. Thanks for sharing.
katie0
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
27 Feb 11
I think we be passionated by the wrong guy but that doesn't turn to love, it happened to me 3 times, they weren't the right guys to me and I was having a hard time to end up, but again that wasn't love.
fourjems08
@fourjems08 (550)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
So you have loved a wrong person 3 times...time will come for you my friend to experience love and be loved.
tessa9
@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
28 Mar 11
Love in general is never wrong but there are some instances where it can be wrong. The most common example will be loving someone who is already taken or spoken for. Worst if the person is already married. I believe that you are being selfish if you go in a relationship like it. You are only thinking about yourself and your happiness. You are not thinking about the other people getting hurt.
sashakiddo
@sashakiddo (1102)
• United States
28 Mar 11
It's wrong to love someone who hurts you. I think if a person hurts you, you can still respect the person because everyone makes mistakes. But it is wrong to love them because that would mean you are allowing yourself to be hurt.
masang
@masang (295)
• Philippines
28 Mar 11
Loving someone can never be wrong when it's real... What is real loving or real love? When you sacrifice yourself for the sake of your beloved. It means selfless love and being selfish can never be love.
lilaclady
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
27 Feb 11
I don't think there is anything wrong with loving someone in feelings but I guess in some circumstances it is wrong with you act upon that love, like if you are in love with a married person... I think all love (of feelings) is good.
kramsgir
@kramsgir (146)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
Loving can never be wrong unless you've gone so far like doing things that aren't supposed to be doing. You have to know your limits. Don't love too much coz "too much love will kill you":))
Stephan
@stk40m (1118)
• Koeln, Germany
27 Feb 11
loving someone can never be wrong. But everything that's associated with love can be wrong. Simply put, there's some truth to the saying: I'd do anything for love (that's a Meatloaf song title, too) I've experienced that myself but if you love someone you're almost condemned to be put to the test many times. Cheers