Do you think that you spoil your children?

Well my parents spoiled me well enough. But they can count on me to do the right thing at the right time. The only problem they have with me is that they think i procrastinate and they are right if you ask me. They are always right. Don't ask me why but i like to do things at the last moment. I am really a lazy guy if you ask me and i would do everything quickly but somehow manage everything! Cheers!

Hi, I try to balance my love for my children so that they do not see this as a sign of weakness. I give them what they want as long as they are worthy of receiving it. For example is I give them toys and gadgets as long as I do not see any failing grades on their report cards. I cannot imagine myself rewarding them with luxury when they have not worked hard to deserve it.

I don't believe in spoiling my children. I have always been seen as the wicked mom who rule their lives with iron fist. But they only have me to thank for what has become of them now. I have molded their characters to be responsible citizens of this planet and what they coined me as a wicked mom once has greatly benefited their present and their incoming future. I am happy to leave my earthly existence knowing that my kids are successful in life. I have fully satisfied my mission on earth.

Hi. alexzizi123. I would treat my kids with love and respect. I will also take time out with them. I will help them. I will teach them to be positive. I will give them privileges. I will enforce positive discipline with them. I will show them that I love them. I will not tolerate disrespect from them. I would not be strict on them, I would only be protective of her safety. If I use corporal punishment, it would be a spanking on the rear end. Or a pop, on the hands.. I would hate to see a child cursing, lying and teasing others.

Hi alex, i have three kids, and i can say that i often spoil them. it is not that i want to, but it happens spontaneous every time they do some mistakes. i know we are only human which fill with errors. the mistake that i can't stand to see is lie. i really hate if they do that to me

hello, I am a mother of three kids,and now on their young teen age. I raised them all in same manner,but my middle kid is far different from my eldest and youngest. I am not a strict mom,i make sure that our relationship is not purely a parent-kid,but also a mother-friend/buddy relationship. Maybe,it depends on each individual behavior. I am also wondering why...but i am still hoping my son will change as he grows older and thinks mature. Have a great day

I am a parent of 2 kids but I never give them punishment nor do I scare them with some punishment. I would like to be good to them and they share with me everything what they do. They do not hide anything from me. I feel proud that I am not strict to my children.

I thinkeveryone just wants what's best for their kids no matter what rules you go by. I also believe that evryone wants to give their child/children more than what they got when they were kids. I tried to raise my child with disipline while giving her what she wanted. And for the most part it worked until she became a teen. Once they hit that age I think all bets are off. They think they know everything and think they can do what ever they want. I would hope that my daughter will raise her kids about the same as I raised her when she has her own. Well at least with the same morales anyway.

I don't think I will spoil my child. I think I am updating my method all the time. I love my child but I know that spoiling him is just to ruin him. I don't want to be strict as the "tiger mother". I just want to be reasonable. I love China

I think I love my child, I do spoil him at some degree by hugging him, cuddling him and stuff. I like to buy him toys sometimes but I try not to do thaqt anymore, I would save it for Christmas or Birthday for him so I don't teach him that luxuries are necessary.

Because I still have no children of their own,so now I would say I can not be certain doting,doing something wrong must be punished,but I really think I arrived at that time perhaps I will not do so,because I was so love children,I just want to put all my love to them!