What is attracted in love--person/money/wealth/mind/care or ....

India
February 27, 2011 1:27pm CST
Actually this is a news on one news paper on feb 27,2011 One Iranian girl and a Indian boy fell in love after internet chatting. Boy told her that he is from a royal family which was not real.Actually he belongs to upper middle class family. He send some money to her and even went Iran and visited her. She was happy till the last day. Last day she visited his house.She was disappointed as she cannot see his 'palace'.Instead she saw a double storied house and a ordinary Indian family. She said that she cann't live with him and is trying to fly back in the next available plain. In this case what is loved? Who must be blamed? In such occasion believe on things that that you can see and under understand. Electronic media can make you to do such foolish things.Try to understand clear facts before any step,any action,...... Please remember the saying 'Look before you leap'
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@savypat (20216)
• United States
27 Feb 11
It's also important that any relationship without trust is going to be short. For long term relatiosnhip of anykind, between humans there must be trust. Life in this world is very difficult and in the long run there are very few people we can trust. This is why it is so important, lies doomed the relationship you spoke about right from the first.
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• India
28 Feb 11
I agree with you. In any long term relationship one must keep trust. He must be frank an open hearted. In this case they met earlier kept relationship for some years, but all broken in a second.
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• Saint Lucia
27 Feb 11
True love is to love unconditionally.Now i am saying this through experience.I would always love someone who is humble and honest than one who brags and lies.If you come to me with stories of your wealth and all i feel insulted.I dont want you describing your home to me,instead i would always choose the hardworking man who is loving,dedicated,kind and sweet to that rich one who is so arrogant.He was wrong to lie.
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@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
28 Feb 11
Truly, this is a sad story...but, I guess I would have to say, put it down to the innocence of youth, and the ability in the cyber world to be fickle! She plainly had "stars in her eyes" thinking she had met her Royal Prince...and he thinking he could pull this off! Thankfully, this lesson, did not due serious harm to either one of them, other than emotionally, but to me, the big picture is that it could have been a very dangerous liasion...and hopefully, they will both, treat cyber relationships with more respect and trepidation! Take care and Cheers!