How to break a relationship

everyone should realize that love does not have to be forced. when we begin a relationship we must now what obstacle will hinder the relationship, so that we can prepare ourselves if that relationship had ended. When you break a relationship with your girl, she would really hurt but by talking heart to heart and understand each other, all will end with fine.

I once had an experience of being in your situation.I was so guilty for I knew I had hurt a man who loved me so much. But what can I do? I don't feel the love that I supposed to feel.So, in my gentlest way I broke up with him. You know smelz23 from woman's points of view, the wisest thing to do is to be honest to her. Tell her the truth, I know it wouldn't be easy but it would be more painful to know that man you love is not happy with your relationship, and the reason why you are still together is because of pity. And smelz23, I am happy to know that you are sensitive about what she will feel, but my dear if your girlfriend loves you, there is no way for her not to feel hurt. But wait! you should be sure enough with your decision because one of the painful lessons I've learned from experience is when I realized that I love him and when I tried to put all the pieces together, I just couldn't bring all the columns back again.

even if it's the girl who initiates the break up, it's inevitable that at some degree she'll still experience some pain. a 100 percent pain free breakup is only for those who weren't even really in love in the first place when the relationship began.

You have to be patient.Start by giving her less attention.When you see that's she is "tired" of you say that the circumstances stay between you and her.She will understand you if you are kind.This is the best way.But watch not to see too much with her or she will think that you did it by your own.Hope this helps you! Hope you have luck with breaking the relationship! -Joro

go to it directly do not prolong the agony. be honest enough that the two of you are not happy anymore with your relationship. express everything to her the reasons that you have. it is painful but it is the right thing to do. good luck!