love mrg or arrange mrg

India
February 28, 2011 6:56am CST
hi friend i been thinking this from eversince i grew up and undstaning world.what is your thought which is more successful in todays generation love mrg or arrange mrg? i think love mrg gonna be more successful as it gives time to both of the person to know eachother before getting merried and in arrange mrg i dont think they get enough time to know each other. what are your thoughts?
2 responses
• United States
28 Feb 11
In my culture we do not arrange marriages. I understand some cultures do and are very successful with it. I am one to only marry, if interested in marriage to do so only for love. No other form of marriage for me would work as I have to truly love the person to share the rest of my life with.
• India
28 Feb 11
ya in very few cultures arrange mrgs are still there. even i believe like you only i will merry whom i love and whom i want to spend my whole life with.
@kh_rabbe (195)
• Bangladesh
28 Feb 11
well i believe in love but if someone get any hurt from her love that will be pain for her or him for hole life. So that's why i dont wanna take any risk. i will love to have love but i will do arrange marriage off course and yes the girl that my parents will chose for me.
• India
28 Feb 11
hi frnd i undstnd you and what you wanna say but what if the gal your parents choose for you is not the perfect or can not match with you or your family?