letting them go?

@yansky23 (404)
Philippines
March 1, 2011 4:55am CST
do you believe on the saying? `if you love someone ,then let them go`. i refuse to believe on it, because if you really love someone,you'll do your best to keep the relationship happy. what's the use of love if the one you love left you?
3 responses
thatgirl13
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
1 Mar 11
Yes actually i totally agree with you. If i love him, why would i let him go?? That is just wrong. I would try and be with him and would not want to let him go.
bdugas
@bdugas (3578)
• United States
1 Mar 11
But what do you get out of trying if the love is not there in return.
thatgirl13
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
1 Mar 11
I was talking about the relationship where both of them loved each other. To be honest, now i don't think i'd even try hanging on to someone who doesn't love me.
yansky23
@yansky23 (404)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
I think it is more of consideration rather than love, i just can imagine how much it hurts loving someone who left you, after all, your main objective is when you break up is to forget the person. Letting maybe part of loving, but the other half is to forget your love to the person. Get over and live life as it is.
hardworkinggurl
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
2 Mar 11
I would only hang on if my partner felt the same as if I am not reciprocated I would be harming me more then doing us any good. I am a true believer that sometimes you have to love someone enough to let them go sometimes.
bdugas
@bdugas (3578)
• United States
1 Mar 11
Yes I do believe in that saying,what you said about refusing to believe because you will do your best to keep the relationship happy, if your doing is onesided then there is no relationship, but only to your side. You should never have to work at keeping it happy, it either is or it isn't. You can not force some one to love you, you can try with all your might, and they will still leave if that is what is in their heart. If you let it go, and one day open the door and they are standing there, then they came back because they love you, not because they was forced to be with you. I want some one that wants to be with me, not forced to, or feels they owe me something.