marriage is not a day contract

That would be absolutely horrible and I do hope you are not experiencing this. I would also hope that the father was aware of what was taking place in the home as well. Sometimes love is blind and some people can't see beyond it, does not make it right! It certainly is not a day contract as I would hope that when the father re-married it was not only to fill his needs but to fulfill the family needs as well. I see you are new to myLot so welcome aboard.

My both parents have other family now. My mother and father never been married. But it doesn't mean that we are rejected. Never seen my father for more than 20 years. Then, 1 day i met him again and he is with his other family. It was very painful. I felt like the whole sky covered me. His wife, didn't treat us fairly actually. She don't even want my father give me money or something. My father gave it to me in secret. Then, I went back to my mother's place and go back to father's place again.....The second and third time I met my stepmother, she goes okay, until now. I am not sure what's in the mind of your stepmother. Sometimes, they are are just get jealous because you are the first family. Your father need to talk to her. That is she love your father, she will also love the children. Besides, she already knew that you exist before they get married. She have no point to treat you bad. You are your father's child. She can't change it. Your father need to know the treatment of his wife towards you, otherwise it will affect your personality. Don't let anybody abused you because of jealousy. Stand for your rights.....