Would you give up your pet if you were having a baby, moving, etc?

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I am seeing more and more, especially lately, people wanting to dump their pets simply because they are about to have a baby. I don't see why they would do that, I consider my pets to be family, I wouldn't dump a child because I was getting a dog, that would be wrong. What makes it right to dump a pet for that reason? Can anyone tell me this? Pets have been around for hundreds of years, how many owners gave them up because they wanted to start a human family? I grew up with cats, my parents never once thought about dumping their pets just because they had kids. My roommate said that he would dump a cat, in a heartbeat if he had kids, but obviously he doesn't like cats as he's told me several times in the past few months. It upsets me that people would do something like that. I read today and a couple of days ago, a joke posting by someone stating that they were going to rehome their children because they were getting a dog. I was going to post the ad here removing names, but the ad was flagged and removed. This shows the seriousness of the issue I bring up about dumping pets. Others say they're dumping their pets due to allergies. I say get over it. My husband has allergies to dander and fur, but we have 2 shedding dogs and a cat that sheds too. He deals with it, he's never once suggested getting rid of the pets even if his doctor has said so. For him, unless it's killing him, he refuses to give up his pets, and that makes sense to me. I wouldn't dream of giving up my pets, no matter what the circumstances were, they are my family and that's the way it will be until they pass on. I've read so many excuses by pet owners about why they're dumping their animals and it sickens me. Moving to a place that doesn't allow animals. Why would you move to such a place? If you had kids, would you move to a place that didn't allow them? Here, it's against the law to say no pets allowed, except under specific circumstances. And those have to be proven by the landlord/homeowner prior to a lease being signed. Simply saying that one is allergic is not enough. Having proof of this is needed. Also, when it comes to moving to a condo, it's up to the condo board members if pets are allowed, so if you want to move to a condo, you need to find out if it's pet friendly. I read a post last night from someone giving up their 120lb dog because they're moving to a condo. But they never said that pets weren't allowed they just claimed that it wasn't a good match for the dog. So, in that case, why are you moving to a condo where it would be too small for your dog? Doesn't it make sense to find somewhere that the dog would have plenty of room to move around? I had a baby and don't have time for my dog. You had the dog before you had the baby, why can't you make time for both of them? Besides, the baby isn't up 24/7, so you still have time for the dog during the baby's sleep time. That excuse was made by the previous owner of my current dog. Yet her baby wasn't a newborn, he was 7 months old. She already had time to get used to having a baby and work out schedules. Yet she didn't give up the 2 cats she had. Maybe because they were more independent? She hated having to get both the dog and the baby ready when the dog needed to go out. Then she only took him out for a short walk. It's no wonder that he was bored when he first came home with us. He loved going for walks and I took him on fairly long walks, but if I didn't have time for that, he certainly went out for frequent walks. He got to go to dog parks and socialize, even went to the beach. That's something she never did with him. My dog has gotten larger than I thought he would. Did you not research the breed type to find out the characteristics of the dog? If you had, you could have made a decision before bringing the dog home that he was going to be too big for your home. I saw that one last week, it was for a rottie cross. Most people know how big rotties can get. I even saw that excuse a few weeks ago for a great dane!! I mean, how can you not know that a great dane is not going to grow to be a huge dog? Years ago, when I faced living on the streets, I didn't want to give up my pets, I tried desperately to figure out a way to keep them with me, even if it meant that they were living in my van with me. That would have been interesting, numerous hamster cages and several cats. But the biggest concern would have been the temperature. It was getting close to winter, and it would have been cold. I wouldn't have slept much knowing that I had to keep us all warm, so I'd have to run the engine frequently to do so. It never came to that thankfully, but if it had, I would have tried to find them temporary homes just until I'd found a place to live. Unless a pet owner has died, I really see no excuse for dumping a pet, especially an older pet that has lived with you for their entire life. It's just not fair to them.