My friend ended her friendship with another friend with unreasonable reason.

@kheydia (882)
Philippines
March 2, 2011 1:53am CST
I recently made communication with my old friends in highschool through facebook, and were excited to know how each other were doing, and then later on i just know from a friend(i will just call her mary) that she and the other friend we have (i will just call her caren) are not in good terms and i was shock how come? and then mary told me that caren get angry when mary told her through chat in YM that caren is so fat already, and because she is fat because they have eat a lot so much, and i ask caren if how true is it, and then i found out that it was true, and to make the story short, mary try to apologize but caren is not responding to her chat's and emails, and just recently caren erase mary's name on caren's list of friends in yahoo and facebook, well in other words caren ended her friendship with mary just because of what mary had commented about her, and i feel sad about it, i feel sad on how they ended their friendship, i try to ask caren to apologize mary but it's just that caren has so much pride and to think her reasons are not reasonable enough to end a friendship. if you were me, how can i help and how should i react?...
2 responses
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
well i think caren is just so sensitive in that matter...or she have much deeper reason to react like that...my advice is that you ask caren if what is the real matter why she'ed react like that...and just be fair... be a caring and faithful friend for both and soon when the time comes caren will just forget every thing and forgive mary....
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
I think she is really sensitive, even before, she is just over reacting on things that are just so little, but i am really trying to be fair to them, and i am careful not to act or sounds that i am defending one of them, well i am just hoping that someday they can be friends again.
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
it will happen ...in gods time it will..goodluck
@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
I'm really sorry but I don't think that it was 'unreasonable'. Some people are just very sensitive when it some to their weight. They get pissed off about the most silly things and it may sound absurd or pathetic but it happens. How do I know this? I'm one of those people. I had an eating disorder all my life. Some of us are just really inferior about ourselves even if some of us will admit it or not. So if someone will say 'You are fat', then that just fuels the fire. I don't think you can do anything more than what you have been doing. Just let time pass and maybe they will become friends in the future.
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
It's alright, thank you for letting me know about that there are really people who are like that, and i respect it, but as for my friend well, i can say that she is really sensitive in a lot of things.thank you.