Will you call your step mother with 'Mom'?

I feel that if a woman did not give birth to me, then they are not considered to be my real mother. It took so much for my mom to carry me for nine months and that to give birth to me. I take this as a great value!

the pregnancy is not easy to face. I too appreciate my mother because of this. No one can replace her pain and her sacrifice. i hope my step mother could understand this

Hi cream, i also feel the same way. i feel her even she is not visible in this world. i believe that she always here with me no matter what i do. and that is the big honor that i can give to my mom by not calling another women with Mom

probably, i have to think in his way. i know that it is not easy to live alone. thanks for sharing,

Hi Nangisha, you are far far lucky than me, my mother had gone for 9 years ago. my father had remarried again for four times or more maybe.. even though he knows that doing that is not a good choice, i don't know why he still do it

Its a long time but I think we all will never forget our mom because they had really special place in our heart thats no one can replace it. Maybe your dad can not forget your mom either. Maybe its his way to looking what he had with your mom but not found it in every woman he married. I hear from many of my relative if woman after loose his spouse they can handle to life alone, but not with man because they used to serve by their wife so they have higher dependability with their spouse. Have a nice day!.

Hi Shia, well she treat me not good. i can see the hatred from her eyes. she just pretend good when my father is around. but i hope that i am wrong. need times to know her true color

Hi Mtrguanlo, You are so much understanding. i do agree with what you had stated above. what makes me not calling her Mom is we are just too early. need years to make a bond in our relationship. but i believe that day would come

i should give her a chance. i know that it is not fair to judge her by the first time we know each other. we have not seen our weak and strength. and i will do that for my dad, thanks a lot. see you around

Hi ifa! You really can't do anything about it but to accept your stepmom but I know it's not that easy,we can't just build a close relationship at once in just weeks,it takes time. But do have in mind that your stepmom is there because your dad loves her and if you love your dad,you should try to consider accepting her and eventually include her in your family. Maybe she isn't bad at all,she may not be as good as your mom,but your dad needs her,at least you can do this for your dad. Hope you understand my point of view,sometimes we have to sacrifice for our love ones and that is your dad. See yah!

Hi, i agree with you. i have a very beloved mother and it is not so easy to replace her. i respect my step mother but still i can't treat her just like i did with my mom. she can't never have my love probably.

Hi rhizziel, nice name ... i want to respect her from the bottom of my heart, not because my father. if i do that i only push my self to do that. i hope she can approve it by doing and act good so i don't mind to call her mother someday

i agree with you Jazel, she has to proof me something that she deserve to call as a mom. she must be sacrifice for me, thus there is something in my heart that lead me to call her Mom

i can feel what your husband's feel Indah. and i know it is not easy to be a step mother too. but i think that is the consequence to be a step mother. i hope my daughter will always be a first wife so she does not have to face this difficult situation

Hi Blosie, i guess we had experience the same way. i just hope that she can understand me that this is not easy for me to call her Mom. and i hope she respect me if i just call her aunt or something like that.