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It certainly would be ideal, however if only a couple could sit and talk that freely before a cheating situation occurred, having that said I am one who cannot forgive/forget if it occurs. Being cheated on is a lack of respect and painful to the heart.

Each situation is different, so it's hard to really say one way or the other. However, being the suspicious person that I am, I believe if they cheat once, they will cheat again. They will willingly put on the Scarlet Letter over and over because they essentially "got away with it" if you take them back. In some cases, it may just be a one time thing, but I am not willing to take that chance.

Hi surekharathi, first of all i will get a doubt, why people get marry and later why they go for divorce. We all human beings can think in a good way/positive way, people once got married why they go for divorce i didn't understand, our promises each other and with the god, what happens to it? that means people neither believe in god nor they love their spouse or they don't know the value of the life or the partner. I do agree misunderstanding may come and dislikes also will be there but all these can be covered with a love, if love is there everything will be possible, they do try to understand each other, if they dislike of their partner any thing then try to adjust with it or just leave for them etc., If they go for breakup then they may be separated but i don't think the heart and the thoughts can't be separated. If they want to become one again they can't because of the ego (most of the people will have). But i feel better that couple should go for counseling or apart from each for few days and think about each other, some time gap between them may also make them to analyze the things better and know each other better. And also think about the children their future, parents don't have rights to separate from their parents. Have a nice day.