I Want to Be a Saving Daddy! Where Do I Find Mommies in Need of Me?
@mythociate (21432)
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
March 2, 2011 5:30pm CST
Now granted, I'm not an independent man (i.e. we WOULD be living off mostly HER paycheck
); but a woman who's being left by the first guy a little-after she has her baby, she NEEDS someone who can depend on her independent-of the first guy (i.e. someone to remind her that she's an Awesome person, no matter WHAT the first guy thinks of her).
And the baby needs a daddy!
Where do I go to put my name in the list of guy's who can be Saving Daddies?
); but a woman who's being left by the first guy a little-after she has her baby, she NEEDS someone who can depend on her independent-of the first guy (i.e. someone to remind her that she's an Awesome person, no matter WHAT the first guy thinks of her).
And the baby needs a daddy!
Where do I go to put my name in the list of guy's who can be Saving Daddies?6 responses
@momof3kids (1894)
• Singapore
3 Mar 11
If I were to be such a woman that is left by the guy after having a baby, the last thing I want is another man. I dun think I need someone to comfort me because to me money is the most important thing when that happens.
I have my sisters and since I have my baby already, I dun need a man, unless he is to provide for me...well.
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
3 Mar 11
All I can do is pity you, who denies the possibility that only a man can bring.
@momof3kids (1894)
• Singapore
5 Mar 11
hmmm i am curious.. besides the bedroom what other possibilities can a man offer?
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
9 Mar 11
a friend, an extra pair of eyes to watch the children, etc.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
3 Mar 11
Oh sorry I am already taken! 
If you do not go out and venture into the world she certainly will not find you. So I suppose you can go online and check out some adult sites where as some women are also looking for that special someone. There are adult, adult sites, christian sites, match.com ( I think that is what it is called, and not sure it is still around), etc..
Unless you initiate the search, the search will not necessarily come to you.
If you do not go out and venture into the world she certainly will not find you. So I suppose you can go online and check out some adult sites where as some women are also looking for that special someone. There are adult, adult sites, christian sites, match.com ( I think that is what it is called, and not sure it is still around), etc..
Unless you initiate the search, the search will not necessarily come to you. 1 person likes this
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
4 Mar 11
LOL, I met him at a staff party and not really my type of guy when I first met him, but whoops here we are 6 years later! he is 6ft 5 inches and I am 5' 5, I am a party girl and he not so much. But he lifted me up in the air one day and history as I know it here I am. lol...
If you are not the going out type of guy try some community online sites. I wold not suggest just any site because then you are looking at long distance relationship and perhaps not advisable.
Not really E-harmony but is match.com still around?? Something that you can physically date, for coffee or chat somewhere. Try not to be too selective and simply date, you may surprise yourself, there is someone for everyone, just a matter of allowing and being open minded.
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
3 Mar 11
But if I go EVERYWHERE looking for a mommy, I'll seem even more like a creep! Where's the best place to search (the kind of place where your guy found you)?
@LaDeBoheme (2004)
• United States
3 Mar 11
I agree with Gifts and LuckyBoots -- craigslist is the way to go. 
Yeppers, I understand there are plenty of sugar mamas looking for live-in babysitters.
You better roll fast though, it's a dog-eat-dad world in the daddy-saving industry and the most lucrative deals are being scarfed up fast!
Yeppers, I understand there are plenty of sugar mamas looking for live-in babysitters.
You better roll fast though, it's a dog-eat-dad world in the daddy-saving industry and the most lucrative deals are being scarfed up fast!1 person likes this
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
3 Mar 11
ehhh, let the up-scarfers have their table-crumbs; I want a mommy that's looking for me!
(Still, I might put an entry on craigslist )
)
@deriellevc73 (982)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
hello mythociate!
are you really serious about this? well, you could start a foundation or organization for saving daddies. It would be most unusual but given our world's situation, one other extraordinary undertaking would be most welcome, lol. Who knows? you might be able to recruit many more like you who are willing to be saving daddies..
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
3 Mar 11
And of course, such a network would be much more-efficient at catc---- SAVING more hot-mommies in need of a daddy. (Coz really, what is a mommy without a daddy?)
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
This one is really good! Can I hire you then? 
I'm not sure if you are really serious on this one and if you are i am a bit curious as to what made you offer such service. If I'm not married i would consider accepting this offer since it did catch my attention and somehow i like the part where the mom would be reminded that she's an awesome person! I think all women should be constantly reminded by their partners about this to make them feel good about themselves!
Just in case i would kick my husband out of the house, i'll try to seek for your services - that is if the offer would still be available at that time. @mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
3 Mar 11
As your friend, I would always encourage you to stay with your husband ... always--that is--until he's completely out-of-the-picture (except for whatever child-support and -visitation you two decide on).
In my tradition, the man is 'the captain' of the marriage ... if it should become un-seaworthy, it's his job to decide whether to fix it (marriage-counseling) or to destroy it (divorce).
Of course his 'first mate' (wife) can offer 'her two cents' on whether there should be counseling or divorce, but it's the man's decision. If she wants a divorce, but he wants to work it out; they'll work it out (if they really meant their vows).
Though I hope that the time never comes, I know that your many honorable male-friends will gladly step in to give whatever help they can to one so Awesome as you (Awesome which I know your husband wants to remind you of 
)
)
@CynthiaL1904 (7)
• United States
3 Mar 11
Are'nt you kinda limiting your self by only going after a small percent of women, what would a woman's situation have to do about having a serious relationship with them you should be looking at her personality not her situation. You sound as if you just want a needy woman and a ready made family thats not love you should love a person before commiting to them and no offense but any woman who leaves their child with a man after just meeting them is dangerously irresponsable.
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
3 Mar 11
You're right, I'm open to any girl who wants to help me take care of me it just seems like no one would need me unless they were kind of desperate, and single mothers are a desperate bunch!
I guess (if it should strike me to look along this path again) I should focus on the girls who already know me, who already know that I'm an okay guy and (tho it may be a little 'creepy') who know I can help them back up if unworthy men let them down.
it just seems like no one would need me unless they were kind of desperate, and single mothers are a desperate bunch!
I guess (if it should strike me to look along this path again) I should focus on the girls who already know me, who already know that I'm an okay guy and (tho it may be a little 'creepy') who know I can help them back up if unworthy men let them down.