If you were me,what should you do?
By koAebryant
@koAebryant (358)
China
9 responses
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
6 Mar 11
I think that if someone has made it clear they are not interested you would only be hurting yourself to continue to pursue her. I would give up on the idea of going out with this particularly girl and find someone you may have a chance with. I know it is painful to give up on the one you care for but if she doesn’t want to be with you it is only going to cause you more pain. Good luck.
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@rogue13xmen13 (14402)
• United States
3 Mar 11
Okay, you are riding into Anakin Skywalker territory, and that is not a good thing.
What did I tell you about this girl? Forget about her! You are done with her. Quite being whiny and Emo about her. She has someone else, and she's not interested in you. MOVE ON!
Find someone else. Find someone who is in your league. Learn to better yourself before getting into a relationship. You are not ready for a relationship. You have a lot of growing up to do and a lot of learning to do before you get into any kind of relationship. You need to learn how to be a man first. You need to be educated. You need to learn how to be a leader before you get into any relationship. First things first, go to school, get an education, get your diploma or degree (depending on if you are in high school or college), and then you can start worrying about girls.
Right now, you are clearly not ready for a relationship because if you were you wouldn't be talking like this.
@rogue13xmen13 (14402)
• United States
4 Mar 11
"Do or do not, there is no try!"-Yoda
You will forget about her, for your safety, well being, and for your sanity, you WILL forget about her! You have to. You need to move on. You cannot wallow in this, you must move on.
@koAebryant (358)
• China
4 Mar 11
Thank you for your good advices! I try to foget her!
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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
3 Mar 11
Oh sorry you are experiencing this as I read your comments above. It is a shame that she just was not honest to tell you directly. It puts your feelings on hold and leaves you to wonder.
Try and venture out a bit and keep yourself busy, this way you are not thinking so much about her and can with time slowing move on and leave this to simply being a friend or just someone in the past. I wish you well.
@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
If she said she is no longer interested and she made it clear to you that she is really serious then I think you should move on. I know that it will not be easy but you have to. If you will still keep on pursuing her then that might scare her away and she might even think that you are too creepy. You should just look for another girl or try to make yourself busy so you will not be constantly thinking about her. I she does like you then she will eventually come around but don't be aggressive on pursuing her. If she said no then that means no.
@koAebryant (358)
• China
3 Mar 11
Thank you!I am very confused that I invite her to dinner,she refused.When I call her,she does not answer the phone!!
@jujunme (2501)
• United States
3 Mar 11
Refusing your dinner invitation and then not answering your phone calls is a clear sign this girl does not want any sort of relationship with you and as tessa9 mentioned, you should move on. it seems you may be making things worse by continuing to pursue her and if at one time or another she may have considered you a friend,if you continue asking for something more, you take the risk of losing her friendship as well.
@toniganzon (72517)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
If a girl says she doesn't like you the first time, you can still continue pursuing her coz she might just be playing hard to get. When she tells you the second time, it's time to quit. When I'm not interested in a guy i just ignore him and never talk to him at all. But if she still speaks to you, you might have a chance after all. But if she speaks to you to tell you she does not like you, please look for another one.
@FX777222999 (437)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
You're a man and you have to be patience with her because you loved her so much. It's on you to go on courting her, and in your own style you can court her naturally. go on courting her for a specific time until she has the inkling on you. If for any reason that she's not actually loved you, then, find another girl that best suited for you.
@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
9 Mar 11
If you love someone who does not love you back, you are wasting your love. You should move on to someone else who will love you, otherwise, the girl might think you're a stalker.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
4 Mar 11
Give up. She told you she doesn't love yu back, right? Then it is hopeless. Take some time and grieve. Then start to mend your heart. take all the time you need and then try to find someone else.