How to change the personality

You can go about it one of two ways: first there is the internet, where you can perhaps bond with members and maybe chat in IM. Or you could venture out a little bit, go to the movies, walks in the park and or join a community friend site. Where you can perhaps as friendship meet for coffee and or tea. That would be a start. There is also taking up a hobby where you can go once or twice and enjoy comparing projects with others. Best of luck, but the key is to be open minded and not be negative. Give something a try at least once and you may find you will enjoy something.

Do you go to school or work? You have to go out and actively make things happen if you want them to change. What are your hobbies? You can go join different groups to do activities you like to meet different people.

Why is it that you have no social life? Is it that you don't go out on the scenes? Are you a very shy person? Do you like not having alot of friends? Either way it goes or no matter what your personal answer is you first have to start with identifying it. Start with social networking site if you will feel more comfortable talking to people that way. I'm on sites such as Myspace.com Facebook.com Mocospace.com Plentyoffish.com Imvu.com. that one is fun for me I like the 3D avatar world. This method will bring you closer with people before meeting them. Not to sound lame of anything but why not hang out with a friend of yours and some of their other friends. I'm sure they wouldn't mind finding out what their friend likes about you. You can hang out at a bar and have a conversation with the bar tender for starters and if someone interesting approaches the bar be generous and speak maybe a conversation will form, Hey you have to start some where and being too shy won't help as much as exploring. Thats how a child learns to play and learn they take chances to find out and if a baby can do it I know that you are big enough to handle it. I hope everything works out for you in the near future. GOOD LUCK!