Lady no...3 ...she was raped five times...

I don't like it Shiby. I personally think anything that rapes should be killed on the spot. That women have guts and a strong personality. I don't think i will be able to handle that at all.

Not raped, but molested, yes... and physically abused. :)

No I have never heard or met a girl like this though I have read many motivating story but no one get started like this and ending with this that "A man can be destroyed but not defeated". I remember this line in that great novel "The Old Man and the Sea", but I couldn't relate your story with this great sentence... Can you educate ? Thanks...

I know someone who became a target of abuse because she was trusting and her nature was to never think of anything bad of anyone or anything even if they hurt her. This girl was seven and she she had to live with her stepbrother because her father owned an auto shop in the province here in the Philippines. Being seven she was innocent and had no idea that she was literally being abused by her brother. She can no longer recall the exact date when the abuse started, but she began to have an idea that what was being done to her was wrong when she was brought by her stepbrother to an older Chinese person and she just cried and ran. If she was not able to cry and run, she might have been raped by that person too. Because of this the girl tried to stay at school later than usual. It would only be the janitor that would be left in the school halls. The janitor kissed the girl and the girl ran away again and was able to escape being molested. The girl grew up pretty but because of these events, she became shy and withdrawn. She took more to books and stayed indoors most of the time. She did not have a boyfriend until she was twenty-four. The girl grew up bright and independent and if you saw her today, you would not detect even a slight hint of the abuse that she went through.

Hiya Shibs, What a Story. She who would valiant be gainst all disaster that is what comes to my mind. She who would be and is so brave in spite of all the things that have gone wrong for her. Me personally I have not met anyone like this at all either. I have met other Girls that have had to live lives in a similar way but it´s difficult to explain fully here. Now she is an English Teacher that is good Job to have and very rewarding as well. I can well understand her great mistrust towards Men though. But what if she does fall in love with someone I mean really fall in love? That is a shame but she could well change her mind in time. I don´t think that she will ever totally forget her past life but she is very brave like the Dragon that comes out all fires blazing. Admire her courage she has much very much. Most would have hidden under a Rock for the next sixty Years I would say. Please tell her how much I admire her courage and she is an inspiration for those that have gone through something similar. The top line the description is from a Hymn and so it´s old fashioned English but it is what I have first thought of when I read this.

What an inspirational story.She is an example for not giving herself a chance to give up her life.I like this story.It give me a lot of lessons. She get through all the obstacles and she is absolutely a wonderful and determined person. Thanks for sharing with us her story.

Hi. shibham. As I read this discussion, I became very saddened for this lady. She was abused constantly by different men. They are sick and they have no quality in themselves at all. It is like they took her womanhood and left her to suffer with it. I am so sorry that this has happened. I don't know anyone personally that was raped. I think my cousin was, but I am not so sure. When these men raped her, they did not take her life away. She is still living and she has become a very strong and dynamic woman of courage! I feel so sorry for her, for what she has been through, but she has made it. She is a powerful woman that will forever be appreciated and loved for her strength! I wished that I could get all of these men that raped her and let them all stand before God and let him issue his punishment that he sees suitable. But their day is coming!

I can't believe this woman did not try to fight back when she was old enough! She could of least tried! After all this she never went to the hospital or called the police? What was wrong with her? I have never met a woman in a situation like this but I believe some of her rapes could of been prevented! She might be able to charge the @ssholes who raped her! She sounds very naive and gullible. She could of avoided some of these situations,too! I do feel sorry for her but again how can I when she comes across as an idiot? It seems she learned not anything being raped as a child so she could avoid them later! She sure should of gotten help as a child! She waited to long and when she did she ended up being raped 5 times! I hope there are woman and girls who learn from this! You can! Don't be naive or gullible! Get help right away! Don't hink no one will help you! There is help! Really there is!

hello dear bhai, I am late again...but i already read this topic the day you posted this one. I was not able to post my response due to some hectic schedule. Now,i want to say what's on my mind. Okay,first i admired her for being strong. One thing that stops me from responding soon as i read your topic is,this reminds me of someone,same experience (almost the same) She is a close encounter,i've known her personally but i never knew she has this dark secrets that she was able to keep for very long. First,her grandfather molested her when she's about 10 yrs old. Then,her cousin raped her when she's 14. She runs away and stayed to her auntie,but then again she was raped by a neighbor (a young guy who likes her and insists to marry her) She came to my house accidentally,when i gave birth to my second son,by that time i was looking for a househelp (which i usually do when i gave birth becoz of my operation) My neighbor recommend this young girl (which happens to be their neighbor back in the province) So,since i knew my neighbor and my neighbor knew the girl, i agreed to have her for the meantime (as i only allow nanny/househelp in my house for 3-5 months) And,after that,i am fit to took care of my kids,then i do not want any househelp or nanny anymore. This girl,is somehow a great help,she knows how to do household chores and wash clothes well. I pitied her when i told her that she can go home already after 4 months of stays in my house. Then,all of the sudden she burst out and cry and told me her story. I was heart broken after hearing her...so,what i did is,i look for a good people that i am sure can took care of her. I called my sister in law who is looking for a househelp/housemaid. And my sister in law agreed since i am the one who refers the girl and she trusted me. That's 14 yrs ago dear bhai. Now the girl got married and is now happily living with her husband and also has one kid. I lost contact of her when they decided to go home to her husband's province after she gave birth,and plans to stay there for good. But,only last year,when i heard news from them and we've met. They already have 2 kids,a boy and a baby girl who turned 1 yr old last October. I can see that,she has a happy married life ,and that GOD has given her a husband to took care of her. Now,they're back again to her husband's province. They just came here in Metro to buy some products that they need for their small business. I also has lot's of stories to tell...from decent to explicit ones... I've met few people,with different faces and different stories... I am waiting for your lady number 4 dear bhai

What a story, I've never heard of something like that before, usually got raped 2 or 3 times, but the lady was raped many many times. Is that how beautiful and sexy she look like? Anyway, I feel sorry for what happen, none of female want to experience what she has been through. She was rape at such a very young age when the usual kids at her age should be enjoying their youth by playing and taking care of parents or guardian. Look what adult has done to kids. How can they build a bright future if adults abuse them? I've never know a person who has a story like that, if ever I know someone I'd probably do the same like you do. I will befriend her and make the world safe and better for her. Hope her future will turn good to her for the rest of her life.