Angry to your wife,angry on your husband or child!

Hi,baressi43! I haven't started my own family yet since I'm still young.But I did have many arguments with my parents when I was back in high school.I was quite fed up with the education system then.All the reciting,memorizing the Chairman's speeches.I could barely breathe.I hated this kind of education.There was no innovation at all.We were machines,not human beings.I wanted to quit and explore the world by myself.I wanted to learn computer and start my own career.My parents thought I was playing stupid and we always argue at that time.They believed I was throwing my future away(FYI,I was doing good at the studies,I just didn't like the learning method).So one day,we had this huge fight and my mom burst out this sentence,"I hope you were not my daughter".You can imagine how heartbroken and furious I was back then. I didn't quit for sure.I survived.Now I'm studying in a university.Things are a little bit different in college and I can do the things I want to do.I apologized to my parents for giving them headaches when I was back in high school.I know no matter how much I believe myself was right,I shouldn't have argued with them.After all,they are the ones who brought me up.And college isn't bad.My parents said they understood I was under a lot of pressure because of the college entrance exam.So I think I should call it an end. You are right about that a kind word can resolve all unpleasantness.We are a family and we love each other.Sometimes it's just a problem about communication and understanding. Have a nice day!

well in my opinion angry is just a kind of sort time bad respond of our mind. that come from/for particular event. coz by blood pressure and it is automatic plug. not all people got angry every event/subject/reason. whatever as being living thing all it has same nature with all. not only in human. like in dog and so on. wise people never go after reason. they just ignore or try to judge with cool mind and low education people they don't like to get down. so there are many reason. i never get angry with anybody. but i act like angry to control situation.

Absolutely in all relationships we must try and overcome indifference by discussing and getting matters out in the open to come to some resolution. Not discussing basically will cause the issue to get bigger and next time even worse because one or the other will concentrate on the previous issue.

During our early years of marriage, my husband and i would really quarrel. That's because when one is angry, he too would be angry. Nobody wants to tone down. But i guess, as we grow older we came to understand each others' ways of confronting problems. We too learned that when one is angry, the other one should just keep his cool. That way, the angry one will tone down. With my child, when i get angry with her, she would just keep silence. But when she had enough, she would tell me "Mama, i had enough already, please stop". That would appease me and cool me down.

every person has own probleme.We must solv this probleme by soft without angry.Angry will not give solution. We can discuse with our wife

Stay out of anger it might cause you heart pain and disease. but people do feel anger sometimes, if im angry about anything or anyone, i'll just close my eyes take a deep breath and be relax for a moment and think that later it will be new minute of my life and i could forget the anger. you're right anger cause people to be blinded of what's the real story so better stay away in anger and talk about it nicely. it will lessen the injury

HI, There is no word as "No Problem" in this life. Everyone will have their own problem ,the differences is whether is a big or small problem and the way you are going to solve the problem.Some people may get it sort out as soon as they can,but some people mau choose to run away from their problem. A family will have their own problem too,quarrelling between couples is pretty normal,different people may have different thinking and way in doing things,be it,they are husband and wife,their way of doing things might be different and sometimes slight argument may occur between them. Of course, they have to give and take and try to make out the difference and patch back,then their life will go on smoothly. From my own experience, I would say sometimes I get angry with my husband too and we will have kinda cold war for few hours,but after that we will just forget about it,talk to each other again.It does help to bring our relationship even stronger and we got to understand each other better.

I always get angry before whenever things don't go the way I want them to be and I can say that it should not be that way. Nothing will be solved if you let your anger take over. I guess that the best thing to do is to talk things over with your wife. I guess that discussions of the issue will be a great help. Voice out your opinions and listen to her's. In this way, you will have the help of each other in dealing with these things.

Angry si an emotion,is one of the indispensable emotion.But angry will ofen make people lose reason,often make do things that happen impulse irreparable consequences.Finallt,lead people to regret. So we must control our angry emotion,it's very important!Have a nice day!