Ladies! please help my friend

hello peykat! I had actually experience a more or less the same situation before. I found out that the guy who was courting me was also courting another girl who happened to be an acquaintance of mine. We both discovered the man's two timing abilities at the same time and quietly agreed to let the man taste a dose of his own medicine. We played along as if we both don't know what it was he was trying to do and at the last minute we both pounce on him, caught him unaware. It was a sweet victory for both of us but it was really a waste of time. I had nothing better to do then. If it had happen now, i would just probably let him and never waste another minute on such a guy. I would not bother the other girl, for she is much a victim as I.

Some parts of a person's life are private, and one of these are,'heart strings!' A true friend, is someone who will stand by, but who will not interfere with their friend's 'heart strings.' Many lessons in life are concerned with 'heart strings,' and these lessons can best be learned by those directly involved, if there is no outside interference.

Hi. Peykat. What your friend should do is just leave him alone. He is not worth trying to teach a lesson to. Let him fall in his own rut. Your friend should just stop courting him because he is a cheater, simply. And, he is not worth crying or getting revenge over. Tell your friend to be strong and move on. She should tell him that she knows that he is messing around with another woman. She should stand firm on her decision. Once she leaves him, she should never go back to him. She can do better all by herself!

Well she has a right to break up with him but what right does she have to invade the other woman's privacy?He is two timing us so i would simply move on and let her have him.She maybe knows about your friend and dont care. Why make an enemy because of a two timing loser.I would not tell her but just leave him alone.

Quite sad and unfortunate to hear this. She knows that he is seeing someone else while seeing her so the only thing she can do is leave him. She needs to realize that as long as she knows that he has another there will be others as well eventually. She also needs to realize that if he knows that she knows then he feels he is not doing anything wrong. Her heart is involved now so it won't be easy to let go and move on but she has to remember that no one should ever make her feel like second best. So my suggestion would be to let him go and move on. He is not the one asking for advice so I feel he is not willing to let either go. I wish you friend well and hope she does the right thing because this will get worse the longer she waits it out.

That man is no good. Maybe he's just trying to prove something that's why he courted 2 girls. She should forget him.

Well let me see. She can either leave it as is and be his second girlfriend or she can tell the other women that this guy is a 2 timer. Her choice to make, unfortunately. I will tell on him though.