A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the .....

India
March 4, 2011 10:08am CST
Hi Friends, "A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person." I was reading this line and thought that how can I fall in love with someone whom I already love a lot? Can you help me to find the ways to follow this line?
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
27 Sep 11
Time 'away from them.' (Maybe not "physically" away from them--although that's a good reason for husband & wife to work separately during the day--but to avoid settling into a rut of 'love you again today ... ho-hum ...') I think of the song "I Love You More Today than Yesterday! (but not as much as tomorrow ...)"
• India
14 Oct 11
yes, you sound very good .. Thanks for sharing.
• India
5 Mar 11
I dont think so, in every successful marriage trust is one and only one thing.Other that comes next is working on this, meaning caring, love, assurance and understanding needs is also important. Sometimes we make mistakes by judging a one side commitment marriage as successful marriage. This cant be the case as if someone is dominating and otherone is only suffering due to this is cant be the right thing as we cant live on love for a lifetime, other psychological, physical and materilistic needs are to be satisfied also.
• India
11 Aug 11
Trust is very important but how to maintain that trust in love life ... just keep loving and that trust will be maintained and will increase every day. Thanks for sharing.
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
5 Mar 11
Hi, What I can comment here is when you love someone in your life, you love him/her with your whole heart,no matter what is the circumstances and in whatever conditions, you will always love him/her. and she/he will be the first one down deep in your heart. For example : when you are away for business trip and wanna buy a present, you will think of him/her first and will get him/her a small gift. Loving someone will need an encouragement and it is easy to fall in love with someone,but to really love that person, it is another story. Therefore, if you have find someone that you really love, treasure him/her.
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• India
11 Aug 11
yes, we need to accept our partner they way s/he is. Thanks for sharing
• India
5 Mar 11
Ajay beta I was married in 1966, mine was arranged marriage, i had never seen her earlier, no love affairs, we are a very very happy couple.. Thanks for sharing Cheers. God bless you, have a nice day ahead. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. .
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• India
11 Aug 11
Sir, Even mine is arranged marriage and I had seen only images of my wife before marriage and we feel very good about it. Wish you very good life ahead ...Thanks for sharing.
• India
5 Mar 11
Well i guess he just implies that you must keep loving the person all the time and show ways in how much you love him/her so that she/he can be with you forever and ever. Though this maybe be a little hard because men have a tendency to change all the time. It shows that man must be loyal and trusting and only then can love grow much more. Cheers!
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• India
11 Aug 11
just keep loving the person .. they way s/he, it may be little difficult but if you love the person it will become easy ... Thanks for sharing.
• Philippines
5 Mar 11
This is something I have experience first hand. It's because we make each other fall in love over and over again. It feels that the relationship is always new, always feels like the first time. In marriage, intimacy should be alive. It is one factor that makes your relationship closer and better. Keep the fire burning. Maintain the kind of sweetness that you have when you were still dating. :)
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• India
11 Aug 11
Very well said ... love your partner like you are still dating ... Thanks for sharing.
• United States
4 Mar 11
First I must say I never would mix love with marriage ! For me , and me alone it seems it is a contradiction in terms. For me , either you are in love or you are married! I chose love. And yes it is possible to fallin love All over again. It happens to me all the time. You get used to your partner. You try not but you take them for granted a little and then they do something or say something and boom! You remember Why you love them and what made you fall for them in the first place. And you fall in love all over again. With me and my guy we do this to each other often.
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• India
13 Apr 11
I am married and in love with my wife so cannot agree with you that marriage and love cannot be at the same time. Thank you for sharing.
@amirev777 (4117)
• India
4 Mar 11
Hi Yes, I think it makes some sense. If you want to make your marriage successful, you need to either be constantly in love with your partner or fall in love again many times. No marriage can be a success if there is no love involved.
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• India
13 Apr 11
Marriage in an institution which works with the help of each other, one person can not be in love if other one is not on same track. Thank you for sharing.
• Saint Lucia
4 Mar 11
It is very much possible because as you get to know this person better every day your love grows so there you are falling in love again.Now thats what suppose to happen in every relationship but it doesnt.Human has become very shallow and so therefore they dont see anything to love in their partner after a while. I am hoping that i will get that love with someone special.
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• India
13 Apr 11
yes, the more time we spend with our partner, more we know each other and falling in love again and again is possible. Thank You for sharing.
@piya84 (2580)
• India
4 Mar 11
In most of the marriages there are up and downs.people fight and have bitter feelings for each other for short period.That line applies here in this condition.
• India
13 Apr 11
Ups and downs are part of our life be it personal or professional and we shoul dkeep loving our partner. Thank You for sharing.
@med889 (5941)
4 Mar 11
It means to always feel love for the person no matter what are the circumstances. I am with my partner for the last five years and we still love each other more and more, we really do not know how it has developed but I would say that it is due to good communication between each other and understanding too. Without the two our love would never be standing the storms it has got during all these years.
• India
13 Apr 11
No, I am not saying that we should feel love even if things are not good but we should try to get back on track to save love life. Thank You for sharing.
• Mexico
4 Mar 11
Hi Ajay Singh Baghel: I love this sentence. I think this means that you have to take care of your love day after day and keep working on it so love will grow up. Routine is sometimes bad, you have to rediscover love and that's the way a succesful marriage is built I think. ALVARO
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• India
13 Apr 11
We have to work and sometimes we do not get enough time to spend with our partner and love is lost in between so we should try to spend quality time with partner and keep the relationship working. Thank You for sharing.
• India
5 Mar 11
This line means that you should love your partner for every activity she/he does. Say for example, you love your partner for way he/she speak ,walk, cook, style etc...
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• India
11 Aug 11
true .. that is the way to go forward ... Thanks for sharing.