what was the most stupid thing u've done for love?
By jpaxxx21
@jpaxxx21 (170)
Singapore
March 4, 2011 10:24am CST
i have done so many...way back in college, i was the desperate type. my bf then, who is my ex now, would not communicate for 2 weeks. it happens most of the time. he'd be silent for a week or 2 & when he does text, i'd get elated & desperate to give him a reply. It happened I woke up at 2am and he did text me after 2 long weeks. I got no load so i need to really walk & brave my way through the unsafe streets of my place just to get a load. Then, walk my way home again only to receive just 2 more replies from him & he'll be gone again. I admit I was so into him & he's just not that into me. But he made me his girlfriend, only he never had the time. I knew then he never really loved me anyway but I was so stupid to ever realize that.
4 responses
@m2heart (80)
• Philippines
16 Mar 11
Hi jpaxxx21 :)
I find it stupid to do those things but It's normal.
We girls love to put efforts to those we love and
even in the middle of the night walking in the street
just to contact them is just nothing only to check to
them. I even absent just to see my boyfriend but then
again I was wrong of doing those things cause in the end
it me who'll get hurt and cry because some boys never
appreciate such effort no matter what we do. Now I learned
my lessons and should be more wiser now.
@jpaxxx21 (170)
• Singapore
17 Mar 11
that's true! i also remember a few times travelling alone in the middle of the night to see my bf, my ex now. it would take me an hour before i could reach our meeting place. he lives far so we have to meet half-way. and worse, i was only a 3rd party then :( it was the most miserable life i had.i was not happy then but i want to make efforts to let him realize i am the girl who never gives up & i had this thinking that if he sees the effort i make, he would eventually choose me & i will be happy. i waited for that moment but in the end i was the one who gave up. i am so glad i did :)
@m2heart (80)
• Philippines
17 Mar 11
I can really relate on you my dear. I'm so stupid by letting my X bf fooled me. He has a live in partner before me and the worst thing is I'm 2 months pregnant when her live in partner called me claiming that she is the wife. The good thing is that they are not married. I decided to break up with him even if it's hard cause I still love him even now. Well my X and I are still friends for the sake of our child and I don't care about the girl because in the 1st place I didn't know about her. I'm glad that we can actually move on and be happy now despite of everything.
@EstiiBabii (685)
• United States
6 Mar 11
Ever had that fear in your stomach that you might loose the guy so you do things that won't upset and he'll stay with you. Well I had. I use to give him money every time he asked me for it. Because I was scared that he wouldn't want to talk to me anymore and I'd be alone. That was stupidest thing I ever done for love. The sad part is that he never kept his promise about paying me back and I still ended up loosing the guy.
@jpaxxx21 (170)
• Singapore
17 Mar 11
you know, i have that experience before. i had a bf who would text me only if he needs anything & i know he will only see me because he would like to ask for favors. but i love him then and i would do anything for him. it was really stupid. i am actually referring to the same guy i wrote about in m2heart's reply below. and he is the same guy i am actually referring to above when i need to buy load because he would suddenly text me. i have sacrificed a lot for him for a year. we even have a baby. but i have not communicated with him for 5 years now, and that's how old my little boy is now..
@rebelde834 (43)
•
5 Mar 11
:) It depends. If you really love that person I guess its normal to
move to his country.
@EstiiBabii (685)
• United States
6 Mar 11
Ever had that fear in your stomach that you might loose the guy so you do things that won't upset and he'll stay with you. Well I had. I use to give him money every time he asked me for it. Because I was scared that he wouldn't want to talk to me anymore and I'd be alone. That was stupidest thing I ever done for love. The sad part is that he never kept his promise about paying me back and I still ended up loosing the guy.
