Dominance

United States
March 4, 2011 11:22am CST
For the guys.. In any type of relationship, there will always be someone who will be one that should be one the driver seat. Hence, one person will always be more dominant than the other and will define where and how he/she take the relationship as it matures. Have you ever been in a situation when you would ask your date what she would like to do? This suggests that you are giving the decision making to the other person. Consider this. A lot of girls will often wait for the guy to lead her in a lot of decision making from the small and mundane things like deciding where to eat for dinner or making plans for a summer vacation. So remember to step up, take that risk and make the decisions. Be that dependable person for that girl you care for.
4 responses
iamhanifah
@iamhanifah (242)
• Philippines
7 Mar 11
In order to build a strong relationship, you must learn to understand, caring, honest and trust to one another.
steffi30
@steffi30 (105)
• United States
7 Mar 11
I think a relationship works best when both parties have a turn at the decision making. One usually will be more dominant but both should have a chance at it, makes it more interesting.
junrapmian
@junrapmian (2169)
• Philippines
6 Mar 11
Men usually dominates the relationship, because they should be. But there are cases wherein the girl dominates it because the man lets her girl to which he says it his way of showing his love. But I don't think the girl should abuse this, she should put herself always in the proper side and only dominate if she thinks she is right. But in order to have a smooth relationship, both parties should cooperate and understand each other and support each other.
hardworkinggurl
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
4 Mar 11
Hi pepperpacific and welcome to myLot! In my opinion for any relationship whether it is a love, friend and or family type, in order for it to function one usually is dominant and the other passive. If both were the same they would clash and no one would really come to an agreement and or decision. I have never had to ask someone whether they wanted to be either, it usually happens naturally as to which route. In my own relationship my boyfriend is the more passive one although he can dominate certain areas. So for us it works well that we both have a bit of both. Welcome aboard!