Sending links to other members in mylot

It isn't against the guidelines at myLot to send referral URLs by private messages to friends -- but I personally don't appreciate receiving them if I didn't agree to it first. There are definitely people that do what you have just described -- they friend as many people as will accept them for the soul purpose of sending referral links. If I receive unsolicited referral links, I delete the messages. If it happens just once, I ignore it. If the same person spams me, I delete them from my friends list. I also look carefully at the profiles of people that request friendship and I'm admittedly very skeptical of someone that has zero participation but a high number of friends. I'll usually leave those requests pending awhile to see what they do. I respect my myLot friends and the time they have to spend on their online pursuits. I appreciate the same in return