I just don't think she should
By jojo732
@jojo732 (294)
March 5, 2011 9:00am CST
Hi my lotters
A very good friend of mine has recently started going out with a guy who is a few years (5 years younger) than her,he is continually looking at women with bigger breasts than her,and making comments about her having her breasts enlarged,she is totally smitten with this guy,and is seriously considering have the op,I have tried talking to her, and I tell her that she looks fine just the way she is, and,if this guy really cared about her,he would love her just the way she is,I have also told her this is an expensive procedure,that has no guarantees attached,but she just isn't hearing me...What can I say to make her step back and think it through?
Appreciate your responses..
jojo732
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3 responses
@Shellyann36 (11384)
• United States
5 Mar 11
I think that you have done quite a bit already. She is a grown woman and capable of making her own decisions. Perhaps it is not the decision you would make but if it makes her happy why not let it go. Now I would wonder who is going to pay for the operation? Is the bf rolling in dough and going to pay for it? If not, can she realistically afford it? She just might be trying to appease him. One last ditch effort would be for you to look up information on failed or botched implant jobs and the risks that go with it and present the information to her. Sorry I could not be of more help.
@Zer0Stats (1147)
• India
5 Mar 11
Hmmmmmm if she consider you as a real good friend then she will listen you and know the fact soon.Otherwise that would be good to leave things on their own! There is nothing you can do if she has already made up her mind into doing it.She'll have to learn the hard way herself.............
