Final Goal of Examination - All A ?
By aeiou78
@aeiou78 (3445)
Malaysia
March 5, 2011 9:35am CST
What is the final goal of the examination do the parents expect to their children nowadays?
An article in our local newspaper was querying about this question recently.
In most the parents' mind, they are demanding a perfect child who is good in grade, leadership, socialized, and co-operation in team work.
The author disagree to these criteria for a child to be successful in his or life.
I have the same opinion too.
For a child to be successful in the future, he or she must have the knowledge, must have a good flexible mind in resolving problems smartly, must have a character of being patient or tolerance and so on.
In addition, he or she should know about their talents.
With their talents, they will in the right track to develop their career well.
Don't you agree to it?
3 responses
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
11 Jun 11
Friend parents should not expect more from their children because already lot of pressure on their child then they does the study in pressure and if they not got the good percentage then the parents annoyed on them and due to this the child can take wrong action. Child can develop their talents and set their career well.
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
11 Jun 11
I never want to scold my children because of not getting good grade in their examination.
But I shall help them to correct and improve their studies.
What I do expect to my children is they must put in their effort in whatever they are doing.
Grade and success are two different things.
Don't you agree to ?
@aihiakashieka (47)
• Philippines
6 Mar 11
My mom used to pressure me into studying for exams but when it comes I become mental block and fail every thing
its pretty sad for my mom and much more on my part too.
I agree because children nowadays are being pressured to do good in the academic but I think some parents are just concerned with their children's future.
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
6 Mar 11
A good grade student does not mean he or she must be successful in their career.
In according to the Jobstreet's survey, 75 percent of the companies do not employ fresh college graduates.
The author believes a good character and a good communication or interpersonal skills are more importance than the grade in order to be successful in their career.
For my children, I do not pressure them very much in their studies.
With less pressure, I hope they can grow up with their interest and perform better in their studies.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
6 Mar 11
I can agree with that because not every child will grow up to be in the white collar field. So broadening their minds and making avail the potential of their talents certainly will guide and help them to be creative in any field actually.
As for me I never expected the full A+, and although my kids did extremely well in school I instilled in them to do and give their full potential. This way they could learn and accept that life is not always fair and so as long as they tried and did their best that is all that mattered.
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
6 Mar 11
Glad to hear that a kind, considerate and understanding mom with intelligent children who are doing well in their school works.
Sometimes, too much of pressure from the parents to their children in their examination might cause a negative result.
I prefer to let my children to learn with minimum pressure in their school works.
ha! ha! ha!
Without some pressure and with too much of freedom, the children might lost themselves in computer games, television programs and so on.
