small thing that can make you angry

Actually, there are a lot of small things that make me angry. This maybe brought upon by my urge to be a perfectionist and my desire to make it work seamlessly. But it's all about making sure that the bad things don't happen again. I agree with you mate.

so many small things, lol. i don't like the way he speak when he jokes, i don't like the way he eat. but i know that is the matter of my mood. when my mood is okay, i don't mind with what he done.

Actually, there are many little things that can make me angry, but I never can, show my anger. I can only bury all my anger.

There really isn't a small thing that my BF does that makes me angry. Annoyed, maybe. But to get me angry, I have to be in a bad mood already, so anything he does that annoys me will eventually make me angry. Actually a lot of the small things that he does annoys me. Like taking too long at the fitting room and asking me a gazillion times if the garment he's trying on is nice. He does annoying things but they are forgivable. It's easy to swallow my annoyance and just let it go. Unless, of course, if I'm in a bad mood to begin with.

I found out that at the beginning of the relationship those small things look very cute.. and that they become more and more annoying. But when you love her you learn to suffer those small things cause you understand that the big things are the important one.. And has for your Q i don't like that my girlfriend is a bit messy and can drop her cloths in the middle of the room..

Yeah it happens when you are having a bad day or just bottleing things up then you get mad about something dumb, like I got mad at my boyfriend because he wore the wrong shirt to pick up his daughter from school. What I was really mad about was the fact that I have to somehow pay for a plane ticket back to my home town. So it does happen but where you said "he will repeat his mistakes" kind of sounds like you are trying to parent him. If thats the relationship you guys have then fine, I'm not judging, but if not then rather than saying he will repeat the mistakes and that being your worry you have to talk to him about how you feel. Take the approach that you don't like that one thing that keeps happening and could he please try and pay more attention and not as you say, spill the drink. I hope this helps.