She was in love with me

hello agan eshatea, how old are you? i think you are younger than her. if she has married for 20 years then she must be more than 40. and you? are you the same age with her or much younger than her. i think she's only want to play game with you. flirting for a while before she's back to a normal life. so, dont do anything that could make you have a huge sin. i have a real story about me, related to "bule". i have a boss online from london. i am his email marketing. after 1 month, he said that i am so pretty and he's really attracted to me. i told him, i have a boyfriend. and he admitted that he has a girlfriend too. but he want me so bad to be his other girlfriend. but because i still have a boyfriend, he pray that i will be break up with my boyfriend and then he swear he will chase me. and he even consider to move to your country and mine, Indonesia, just for me. but he really enjoy polygami, he said like that. i appreciated he's being honest with me and tell me the truth. but, i dont want to play game with him. i said to him, not to go to my country, and stay where he is. dont ever think to come to my country because i will never meet him. and if he satisfied with my quality work, then be professional like a boss. because i said that, now we have a better relation. he's never ask me to be with him again. now, as a proffesional i work with him. and he appreciate me as a worker with quality work. if you do something like me, you will never regret it. dont play fire my friend (jangan maen api). i can do it if i want, but my heart doesnt allow me to do such thing. hope you can choose the best for you. salam

Hi. eshatea. Welcome to myLot! I think that you should take your time in meeting her in person. Maybe you should just, meet her in the daylight and not at night. Present her with a nice gift, like a book, or a souvenir that would suit your relationship just fine. If she is the woman that you desire, then take it slow and see how she feels too. Don't rush anything. Take your time.

Should you serve what she wants?... What does she wants then? Is she still married or divorced? Do you loved her,or do you have mutual understanding? If she's free and you love her too...then i can't see anything wrong meeting her in person. But,if she's still married and you do not love her the same way she loves you... you should avoid her and never met her in person.