"lost love"... what if you'll meet again and both free?
@frenchfriesmama1 (39)
Philippines
March 7, 2011 9:14am CST
In reality all of us have, had "LOST LOVE".. if you believe in fate or God's will..What if one day you will meet, the one whom you considered your LOST LOVE and your could have been and both of you are free would you give yourself a CHANCE and grab the opportunity to be with that someone?? Years may have changed both of your looks already but what if the feeling of of attachment is still there?? What would you do???
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6 responses
@rowantree (1186)
• United States
7 Mar 11
I would be with that person. Actually, I am with that person. I really loved my ex, but he moved away without even telling me after a disagreement. I ended up getting married to someone else, but the marriage didn't work out. I ended up talking to my ex online and found he was a different person, more willing to settle down. He moved back to be with me. That was over 11 years ago and we are still together.
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@frenchfriesmama1 (39)
• Philippines
7 Mar 11
This is the best story ever.. Hoping you all the best,I am happy to hear that this kind of relationship really exists. :)
@rowantree (1186)
• United States
8 Mar 11
Thank you! And we are not doomed, like the poster above claims. It just took us some time to settle in, that's all. I think that there are times when a relationship just doesn't work out, but there are also times that if you try again, you'll find out that the relationship is even better. Thank you so much for your kind words!
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@edb225112 (124)
• United States
7 Mar 11
What a silly term 'LOST LOVE!' You had an experience with someone, felt some strong emotions AT THAT TIME and it didn't work out. That is the way the world works. You are not the same person because time and experience has changed you. Just as it has for the other person. If you try to restart this LOST LOVE it is doomed to failure. Over time, you have mystified the lover, creating a beautiful memory without all the issues and problems which cause this love to be lost in the first place. What you are feeling is that mystical love you created in your memory. IT IS NOT REAL. YOU CAN NOT RECREATE IT. The only place LOST LOVES belong is in a scrap book.
That being said, if you meet someone from you past and want to explore a NEW relationship based on who you both are now. Go for it. Just don't count on what you felt at 20 to be the same as what you feel at 40. Give the person a chance to be a real person, not some romantic perfection that was snatched from your heart by cruel fate.
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@r0ck_r0ck (1952)
• India
8 Mar 11
yah there should be no letting go if the love is true.. but then again true love is hard come by now days, and whoever is in true love is lucky
@shaggin (72183)
• United States
11 Mar 11
With me I didnt have anyone in my past that I cared enough about to want to have a relationship with again. All the guys in my past were either mean or losers and I dont really want anything to do with them again. My friend and I were talking and he has a lot of girls in his past that he would have love to have a relationship with again but they are all either married and have kids or something. He said the one just has a boyfriend and if they split up he will try to get back into her life.
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
7 Mar 11
Hi,
If this kind of situation happened to me, I may not 100% accept
him back,but of course,it is depend on my feeling at that point of time.
If we still have chemistry,then I may consider to start fresh a relationship
with him. If we both really have fate to be together,then we can't
reject the fate ,but to accept the fact and stay happy forever.
The most important is both parties have to treasure each other.
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@rhizziel2301 (169)
• Philippines
23 Mar 11
Yes, i would give a chance if we both free and if we still love each other perhaps its about time to continue our long lost love.
