Your other side.

I can't think of any better example so I chose that dance floor example as it is the closest to be given. I just couldn't imagine how much you danced a lot based on your description that you're 8-year old can think your crazy. I just don't understand why would people become judgmental with your dancing. Well I don't actually dance but I sing a lot when no one is around or just inside the house. My sister would just laugh at me but I guess they are already used to my bad singing.:P

I can get pretty wild, he started saying I am a crazy dancer when he innocently walked behind me as I was doing a back step. He was carrying some grape juice, so when I knocked into him..Fortunately I caught myself and I didn't hit him too hard, but hard enough to know him over and spill his juice. At this church we use to go to, I remember even the pastor knew to get out of my way when the music started..lol But that was before another church came in and influenced this pastor.... Oh,as for singing, I am a terrible singer too, that is why I prefer to dance..:D

I guess I don't have much choice as I'm terrible to both. I prefer singing because I often felt lazy moving around much.

Did you ask them why they have that impression to you? Maybe they're scared at your laugh or they're afraid to die laughing a lot. I think so too that it's annoying at times but sometimes it's a good attitude as well, just depends on the situation I think. Maybe you've got killer smile that's why they're scared.

Poker face scares me a lot no doubt they have that impression on you. They think that so that you're really studious? I guess they have really the wrong impression on you.

I wish I had a killer smile lol and no actually I've never asked them why they have that impression. Maybe it's because during the first days of our new classes (when i don't know anyone) I don't talk a lot and just concentrate on my notes with a poker face lol. Oh yeah the other thing is they think I'm really studious. Which i am (i wish!! )

Hello cream97. I say that it is gorgeous indeed. Just follow your heart where you feel comfortable and happy. If that other side of yours will make you happy then you should reveal it. Do not hide from what is real inside. Follow your hearts desire. I guess you should try asking your hubbie as well about what he thinks or his idea about it.

I also have lots of fantasies agrim. I guess it'll be better not to take action when you're uncertain about things because we might not like what the result would be. I'm not as well interested in getting fat but problem is I'm getting fat which is the opposite for me.

We are flexible and adaptable to whatever situation we are into. Maybe we just tend to use what personality is suitable for a particular event. I also have thought of this just right now after reading your response. Have a nice day.

I guess I'll be a retard too if I would stay too close to you much often. I understand what your friends may be feeling and I think they would love to be with you all the time because that what I would feel if I were them.

YES, yes I am. ;) Kind of surprising I guess? :P But I am snobbish in a nice way. hahaha.. really, my friends even think that sometimes I am nuts, because first thing I smile then when I turn around I would raise an eye brow on them, then after that I'll be looking back at them again, with a laughing face. :D And we would probably end up laughing like retards. And it makes me somehow wonder if they are still not used to my upside down behaviors. :P that's why sometimes I ask them if they are mad at me or something, then I would whimper like a kid who wants lollipop and when they answer back, which is always the same, "of course not, why should I be mad at you?", I would hug them, if they are girls, but if they are boys I just give them a friendly shove., then I'll raise an eye brow again, hahahaha.. :D I'm totally a mixed up person I guess. ;) and yes, I am a serious person too, whenever it is appropriate and needed. ;) as well as I am conservative, mainly because of the way my parents trained mem and also because of my religion. And I'm proud of it. :P

Most of us actually base our impression to what we see physically especially the facial expressions. I have seen also a lot of people who looks very serious but then suddenly laugh hilariously. Just smile often and that impression to you will change in time. Have a nice day as well.

Hi stilldirect. I have just realized that we often just show the other side of ourselves to people whom we are comfortable with because we can be who we are thinking that they won't criticize us that much for having that personality. Thanks for your response.

I have noticed that we only show our true self to people whom we are used to and we trust with, believing that they would understand us and wouldn't criticize that much unlike to people whom we are not used to because they might get annoyed or irritated by us. So we just act consciously to people we are newly acquainted with in order to be careful. Guess we have to be more open to our positive sides.

Hi Sheeny. I have heard that 4 windows of self before or the Johari window and it sounds interesting to learn from it. So don't you have anything to share about your other side? Well thanks for dropping by.

Being competitive is good. I guess it's the insecurity factor that makes you envious when you feel that they're already catching up. Well what I can say is continue being competitive but don't get envious. Competition is good so that you will have to do your best and won't get left behind, while envy makes us feel strange and insecure. Let's just be happy with everything. Thanks for responding. Have a nice day.

Oooh hypertension. That is difficult to handle. Maybe it can't be changed but it could be avoided. I guess you can try relaxing more. Hope you'll find a way to solve it. Have a nice day. Welcome to myLot.

Hi yenseyer. Welcom to myLot. Yes I have heard of that Johari Window and it's interesting to learn from it. Our self is very mysterious being that needs a lot of discovery. Thanks for dropping by. Have a nice day.