Gentleman with all the ladies
By xien2xien
@xien2xien (1382)
Philippines
March 7, 2011 7:36pm CST
Hi mylotters i've got this situation last night. My boyfriend and i was eating our dinner and talking with the things we've encounter that day.
later on he told me that , earlier that day when he commute going to his work he saw this gang of drunk men looking across the lady in the bus and tripping with the way she dress. so what he did what talk to that lady and said the thing he saw and feel very protective of her.
my problem is that i've noticed that my boyfriend is very gentleman with all the girls, weather he knew them or not. sometimes i get jealous what should i do?
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6 responses
@ralitsatomova (52)
• Bulgaria
9 Mar 11
Well you should be very proud that your boyfriend is such a nice a guy and especially that he is a gentleman since very few of the men are.On the other hand now there is nothing to be jelous about but the things said about your boyfriend show that he has a thing about girls in need.Actually every guy does,but there are some that has it stronger in themselves -the wish to protect a weak lady.The only concern you are supposed to have is that that way he communicates with a lot of ladies who are somehow attractive to him-with the fact they need protetion.There always will be a danger he would fall for one of them.As I dont know how stable your relationship is thats what I could say.If you have a long loving stable relationship there is nothing to worry about except of that angry looks of the other girls once they realize how great your guy is.
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
9 Mar 11
we're just kinda starting our relationship. but it's not on how stable or not you are. sometimes even married couple broke up. it's on what we feel for each other. i can't even tell if i can love him forever or if he will, time can only tell if we will be forever. but as long as he's mine i'll try to make him feel my love as much as i can
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
9 Mar 11
well in that case it's up to him to decide and to choose. i love him for being a gentleman because honestly the first thing why i loved him is because he's a gentleman.
@daveisdavid (878)
• Singapore
8 Mar 11
Don't worry, your boyfriend is a gentleman who respects ladies. If he can be so open to tell you about the incident, it means he has nothing to hide.
nice.you are lucky. you don't need worry about it.there is not anything happened right?he is a gentle man indeed!~
@nikramos (698)
• Philippines
8 Mar 11
randomly being protective of other girls is fine. but being consistently protective of one girl seems different. i think your jealousy roots not just from your bf being a gentleman. you may want to assess other factors that may have caused your jealousy.
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
8 Mar 11
i don't know maybe it's just because we met at almost the same kind of situation. He's being gentleman with me that time then we become friends and fall in love that's all.
@satyendra25 (17)
• India
8 Mar 11
ya he ia a nice guy take care of him ........... dont miss him in any manner my friend
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
8 Mar 11
sure sure as long as he won't fall in love with the other ladies he's being nice with . if he decides to fall in love with other i won't do anything about it. but i will love him as long as he's mine
