What do you do to impolite people in a chatroom?
By Emerald
@chavezrmc (6095)
Philippines
March 7, 2011 9:38pm CST
I have joined a good site, that's have a featured paid to chat portal. Its a decent site but people come and go so there's not much connection with each other. Conversation are not limited but always must have decency or the likes otherwise you will be banned. What would you do if someone talk to you in an impolite way? and comment negative on your talks? Would you end up arguing or just ignore the person?
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11 responses
@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
9 Mar 11
well mods are there to see to it that everything is fine, and but sometimes they are not around. so better just ignore i guess
@MATT69AC (333)
• United States
9 Mar 11
ya sometimes no mods are there but there may be some in other rooms that you can check to see if their there and if they are tell them whats going on
also you may send an email to birejji and tell them what happend and someone will do somethign about it
hopefully we can make your experience there better
M@C
@madebyrobyn (616)
• Australia
8 Mar 11
I think no matter where you are or what you are doing in life you should make the most of it. I also think that it is your own responsibility to maintain your level of happiness.
That said, if there is someone not being nice to me in a chat room then I make it aware to all with one statement to the entire chat room in a polite way that I am feeling uncomfortable by the comments I am receiving from the person in the room. I would then do my best to not even read their comments from then on and if there is a way to block them from your view I would do that too.
You do not have to put up with people treating you unfairly but there are ways for you to stand up for yourself without stooping to their level and being rude too.
I wish you luck!
@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
9 Mar 11
thanks for your advice, sometimes i am doing one line comment, yes in a polite way that he/she would feel that there's something wrong with what had been said and i guess they get and just ignore if he/she replied. that the best way i can do
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
9 Mar 11
Well,there will never lack of some annoying guys in some chatrooms. And i just don't talk with that kind of person. And once they do something extremely impolite, like : do you want to play, or want to see ....... I will pull him into black list. So he will can not annoy me any more.
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
9 Mar 11
Sometimes just ignore. Those people and continue to chat. With decent. People who are rude can be ban and block beside that can block and report to the administrator. Find let these as1holee disturb your peace just ignore them . You can also inform all your Fern about this guy or post in billboard and such .
@sam19810528 (45)
• China
9 Mar 11
i'd like to argue with person who has different opinion as me. But our debate must be in a polite way. i refuse chatting with anyone who is impolite. So i would ignore these person and never talk with them.
@abatencila (970)
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
I'll just ignore the person. Anyway, I don't know him personally and it's a waste of time to further argue with him. Just be kind to those who are kind to you also.
@cassandralynn (1084)
• United States
9 Mar 11
I'm a paid member to a chat site and I know exactly what you mean. How I handle it depends on the situation. If it's just a random chat room troll then I usually ignore them and block them.Once in awhile I do argue back, but not too often. The best thing I can suggest on how to handle trouble makers is either leave the room when they start problems,block them or ask the room mods to do something about them ( they usually kick out trouble makers)The chat site I'm a member of doesn't ban people too easily. It just depends on your membership status. Like if you are a free user you get something like 3 chances then if you break too many rules they ban you. Paid members have like 5-20 warnings given' to them, it just depends on what type of membership you have.If a person is harassing & stalking you then you should report them to the chat site.Being involved with this chat site for over a year has shown me that more then half of people who are members seem to suffer from some sort of mental problems, those are the types I try to avoid.
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
8 Mar 11
Hi. chavezrmc. I have gotten used to negative people. When they start to get impolite, ignore them. They just want to start confusion with you. Don't react, because there may be a moderator on the chat portal. That is why it is very important that you ignore any impolite and rude remarks. Don't fall into their prey. Ignore them, they are just silly and crazy.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
8 Mar 11
I will just ignore that person or block him. No point in talking with arrogant people. It's just a waste of time and energy
@windowsRExp (28)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
8 Mar 11
I'd ignore the person,and if there is any way,report them to a moderator or and admin
@missavri (8)
•
8 Mar 11
well,open chats are really about what we may contribute to the house.i could be frustrating if members were live,notwithstanding their gruffiness.its all a mix of the moments,so i think i'll move on without it being a case of ignoring the person.unpredictability is what makes the human a.... being.lets just keep chatting!