my brother sucks
By tammy27
@tammy27 (1241)
Philippines
March 8, 2011 9:08pm CST
what will you do if you have a brother who is so da** useless!! he stopped going to school, bullies my little sister, showers me with his kicks and punches, keeps on entering in my room ans stealing stuffs, and cant understand even the simpliest instruction...!! i just hate him!
8 responses
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
9 Mar 11
I think you need to live far from him. You need to locked your doors all the time specially when you are not around, make it double lock.
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
10 Mar 11
It takes a lot of courage to settle a new domicile. Goodluck to you and I hope you will be able to find a solution to your problem.
@jennyze (7028)
• Indonesia
9 Mar 11
I have a suck of a brother myself, so I understand your feeling. Fortunately, mine is not violent to his siblings, still da** useless anyway. I used to hate him, but now I don't think I feel anything for him just numb. I hope your brother overcomes his violent behavior. If not I guess you can report him for abuse. I know, often we do not hate our sibling that much that we have to report to the authority, but maybe it works for the better.
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
9 Mar 11
i just hope my aunt would take him away and bring him with her. my mom can't let go of him, she loves him so much despite his worthlessness and violent attitude. i really don't know what to do with him now. he's such a bad influence for my little sister and i dont want her to grow up just like him...
@jennyze (7028)
• Indonesia
10 Mar 11
Yes, that is the case with my brother, my Mom always gives in to whatever he wants. I told her to stop giving him anything, to make him think and be responsible to his own life. But, no, my Mom still gives n every now and then. So, I told my other brothers to take care of their own future and never to expect anything for this suck brother as he is spoiled and rotten already.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
9 Mar 11
How old is your brother by the way? If he is in his teens, its normal lol but then he might have some problems that he is hiding and it is his way of hiding how he feels about you...why not talk to him? what does your parents say? but do not worry people change, and sooner or later you will both learn how to value one another.
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
9 Mar 11
he's 13 i guess... and, fighting with a 5 year old kid, playing with a 5 year old and other kids younger than 13, battering an older sister, answering back to his own mom as if he's dealing with a 13 year old as well, won't listen to the ones older than him... i don't think that is still normal. and how i wish he would change soon, so that there's be no more war in this house.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
9 Mar 11
Your brother has a problem, that's why he is like that. He stopped schooling , so he is bored.
Perhaps a heart to heart talk with him by your mother and father should be done. It should be eked out from him what does he really like to do in life and act on it. Perhaps only then, would he will have direction in life.
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
9 Mar 11
hes he does. i know it and i can feel it. i searched about ADHD online and there's a list of symptoms i found, when my mom and i used it as a checklist, almost all of it fitted my brother. i know it's not enough and several tests should be done first. but my mom doesn't care bout it. she keeps on complaining to be how worthless my brother is but she won't give him the price of school-stopping sin. she still let's him use the PC and watch TV. i told her to be more strict to him but i don't know why she cant.
@ankgarmuch (43)
• Indonesia
9 Mar 11
hemm....i think you have to be patient more :D but maybe you should avoid one or two days to calm the mind. I also never felt disturbed like that, what i do is let for few days. ^^
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
9 Mar 11
patience is not enough... he's just so annoying. i even tried not talking to him so that no issues would happen, but it still did not work. instances really happen where i just have to scream in front of him how worthless he is. he just makes major mistakes everyday! :(
@celticeagle (166718)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Mar 11
I don't blame you for disliking him. I think his/your folks should step in. If he is of age to not go to school he should have a job or no extras at all. He should have some very stringent rules set down. One of them being that he respects others although that should have been taught to him years ago. Where is his parents anyway? They need to step in and make him accountable and make him get a job. Then he wouldn't have time to be mistreating his sisters.
