Someone loves my husband....

don't over react. assure your husband that you trust him, but with little sweetness and jealousy. a guy sometimes flirt not because he doesn't love the wife but he's just curious if he is still attractive. make him feel that he is still as handsome as the day you first met each other.

I think you should be happy because you got one nanad.

Well personally I'd have to tell him to tell her to step back. If he's married to you and there's nothing going on then certain comments should not be acceptable. He shouldn't have a problem telling her to stop commenting on him the way she does if there isn't anything going on plus it would be a way to really reassure you.

My husband often tells me people at work always tell him how good and awesome he is and some of them are girls. He says isn't it good that people gives compliment to your husband? I guess it is a good thing, meaning he is doing good at work. The most important thing is - I trust him.

Hi tjen_anni, If the comments were friendly ones I do not see a problem with them. I would be concerned if the comments were loving ones, because I would hope my partner respected that all could view them and wonder why someone else was making loving comments to my husband. I suppose I view this on the reverse, do not think my partner would be too keen if it were my wall with loving comments from a different man. I would ask my partner to remove them and ask the lady to be a bit more respectful, that is if the comments were I love you type.

It is a normal feeling to get jealous or annoyed when your husband is getting close to a girl. If I were in your shoes I would talk to my husband heart to heart. I will tell him what I feel and advise him not to get close to a woman when in fact you're already married. It is not good for others to see that your husband is a lot more closer to her friend than his wife to avoid gossips from the people that sorround us. It's no longer healthy for me.

Hi. tjen_anni. I would confront both of them. I would ask them my husband about her. That is how many women are. They will act like they like your man, in a nice regular way, but they could be scheming to get your man all of the while. I would report her comments as abuse. And I will talk to my husband about her comments too. She will have no choice but to give me an explanation. If not both of them, one of them will at least have to!

Happy because you have a lovable husband but only if that's the reason. Angry because he lets her make such comment on facebook which everyone can see Sad if your husband return that feeling. But if you know that the feeling is one sided you shouldn't let it bother you.That is something we can not control for others can also see the qualities we see in our mates. Just be honest with him and ask him out right whats going on and if it's nothing on his part then be happy that you chose such a wonderful husband.

Hi t..... If it were me I would try my level best to stop this relation. She is a religious person you say. It means nothing. when a person is tempted you can't now the outcome normally nothing good, we human are a greedy bunch we want every thing to be ours. Even when it is not. it is our nature to compete and win. another thing, age now days is only a number. As for you. you already have him. he is yours. protect your husband. protect what is yours. (this women is only a friend) that is a common phrase that is already stale. Look around you, remember during courting your husband, compare to this situation now between them. Women are desperate now days (sorry to say this) there are a ratio of more women to men now. you want to share your slice of the cake with some one else. My religion allow me to marry 4 women at 1 time, I do not do it since I cannot afford to be just and fair. Even than the women here try their best to prevent this. My feeling is, stop it from the bud before it bloom into something that you will regret.

this happened to my father. My mother got an admirer who always sends letter to my mother. My father was angry to the person and he almost hit him. My mother didnt reacted nor reply to his letters. With your case, you really have to take care of yourself. But gently, that you wouldn't look competing against her cause you dont have to compete for your husband VS other girls. You still have to be presentable to your husband's eyes. You have to look good. If I am on your foot, I will reprimand the girl "IF" the comments on your husband's FB account are out of bounce. but if there is no reason to get jealous, then Ill just be friendly.

I think you should just relax and feel confident in your husband's loyalty to you. You have to say to yourself "it doesn't matter how much she wants him because she's never get with my man." Girls have a tendency to get jealous whenever a girl likes their partner, I think it's because they have a lack of trust in their loved ones. With me, I'm dating this really cute guy that so many girls want and I have never once gotten jealous because I know my boyfriend wants me. These girls are constantly touching him and giving me dirty looks whenever they see me and I just shrug and keep on walking. I know that no matter what they do I'm still going to have the guy.

if your husband gives you assurance then believe him. if you see that your husband look after her as a friend no need to worry. because people can't control others feeling, if she loves your husband you should feel lucky cause he chooses you among all the others who loved him

Wow, I can see why you may be concerned, see what kind of comments he is getting first, a person can receive caring and loving comments, but they should be in a friendly style. Since this friend is religious, they tend to make it a point to do caring things for people who need reassuring. They make a point of this, because their religion compels them to do so. However, the actions need not be of certain styles, not too flirtatious and not too pesty. Look at the comments and their style first and then try going from there. I sympathise with you, hopefully, she is just a caring person.

Actually, in my case, it is quite similar... My long term boyfriend has a friend that have been loving him for years, even before I met him. They dated briefly before and they broke up because at that time my boyfriend was a player (they were only 15, then) and she never gave up loving him. He moved on to a couple of girls and finally when he met me, he settled down and started to take things seriously. We are even considering marriage. Well, it started when we had an argument recently and he confided in her. After awhile they became close and my boyfriend had developed feelings for her. I was really heartbroken as I have spent years of effort and time in this relationship. When we broke up, I asked him, why did he choose to leave me for her. He said that she has been praying for his well-being and that she cared greatly for him. In my defence, I have been working very hard in our relationship and in my opinion, her efforts are feeble next to mine. My boyfriend then tried to have a relationship with her but he couldn't forget me, so he came back to me asking for forgiveness. Initially, I rejected him because he studies with me overseas and she is currently back home. I thought that he's just trying to get the best out of the situation by being with me until we graduate and then he will leave me for her when we go back home. But he promises that he truly loves me and that he only cares for her as a friend. How should I react? I've read a quote somewhere that says that if you love someone, let him go, if he comes back, he has always been yours. I've let him go and he's come back. But is it for the right reasons?

do some reverse psychology on ur husband