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People are lonely and looking for someone to love them. They falsely assume that this new exciting person will make the difference in their lives even though deep down they know the problem is not with others, it is with themselves, but they don't know how to change. One bad decision leads to another.

when getting married everyone think everything will be rainbows and daisies,noone knows when getting married that things would end up with a divorce.Sometimes things just go wrong,people change,stupid things happen,feeling go away.These things are nothing that could be predicted.

I can only speak as a divorcee and say that when I married it was suppose to be for life. Unfortunately sometimes things do not work out as we plan and unfortunately a divorce like mine occurs. People do not set out to marry to intentionally later scheme up a divorce, or at least I do not know anyone that has ever done this. There are many reasons why many divorce and not because they pre-plan it.

I don't think anyone goes into a marriage saying, ok this is just temporary, we're going to get divorced. If that were the case I would understand this question. But people grow and change over time and sometimes it is possible for people to change so much or you yourself to change so much that you simply fall out of love. This doesn't mean that when things get hard you should just quit, but if you've tried counseling and talking with each other sometimes divorce is the best option.