trusting someone

Hi shady25 and welcome to myLot! Once trust is lost it can be at times too difficult to regain once again. If it is a controlling person not trusting it may not have to do with anything about the person they do not trust. Some times for control they absolutely question everything about the person. If the controlling person drums up issues maybe it is not the person not trusted but actually the controlling person who had some secret agenda of some sort and utilizes the controlling factor to manipulate. Has this ever happened to you?

when one doesn't trust another, even though they love this one, i think there is something wrong with this person, maybe he doesn't trust herself as well, or maybe it is just something like the savior said once; "as a man thinketh in his heart so is he". so i guess its psychological.

better safe than sorry

the only possible explanation I could give to that is that kind of people had been betrayed and lied to and are scared not to get hurt again.Once having a close person let you down it is very hard to forget and go on likje nothing happened.You learn to protect yourself and your feelings and doubt everything and everyone..