what do you think????

Yes, I believe on that saying. Every love that can be feel in one person has a pain that comes behind.I think in order for us to conquer that feelings we should show our love with someone with all our hearts and be ready for the pain that waits.We should be happy and enjoy the moment as if tomorrow never comes and when the pain comes, try also to feel the pain and enjoy the moment of pain for not everyday is a rainy day.

For me, i am a very practical person. Any which way, i go home empty handed, so i would rather not have loved at all so i wont have any heartaches.

Hello my friend, I think that's how life goes because we never know the next moment of our lives. Everything. You're talking here of love life. Honestly, am a victim of that. We've been on for 13 years that led to nothing. Sometimes, I forced to believe long engagement has a higher risk of breaking up than shorter one. And, I was once a victim of time. Nice post my friend.... Mobhomeir here..

I would want my cake and eat it to. I would rather love for a lifetime and have that love with me all my life. But for the sake of answering the question I would say I would rather love for just a moment then pain for a lifetime.

totally disagree with your this point.i mean pain and relieve are the two side of life.you cant stop doing something because you have doubt you will get pain from it.and im sure if you truly love someone even you get pain from ur beloved you wont stop loving him/her. thats my thinking i may b wrong as every people has their own views.

All I can say is love for now, for the moment! Be in the moment and love the moment! Everything has balance in life, so yes, with the love comes the pain in one form or another. But never be discouraged from loving, our hearts and souls need it :)

Love is such a volatile emotion! it can bring us so many different kinds of joy, sorrow or pain. Loving for just a short time and having those beautiful memories to reflect on can bring more to your life than loving longer with trials being a constant reminder.

Hi asliah, It is a very complicated question that we sometimes overlooked. I want to treasure the love for a lifetime. If I love somebody I want to be with him/her. Sometimes, we get hurt when we love, that's true but also love can heal the pain that it caused. On my opinion and experienced when you love you need to be ready to sacrifice, get hurt but it worth it. That's the essence of love. Thank you for the question. God bless.